liemories make current times most unfathomable Eleanor Godley vintage years - SO much to grumble about,so little tirae. Our plate runneth over. The grovery store line-ups top iny list, of course, though the hour-and-a-half drivers ‘have to spend achieving the Second Narrows Bridge must top a lot of others, To rub our noses in it, as the final straw, - - vthe sun ‘don’t shine no more. . We are in some season of _our discontent —- whether it’s “summer or winter is moot — ~ but it is none of it nice. ; Whatever, it makes a perfect climate for a gripe, and we _old folks are fed up. We've been through worse and sur- vived, granted, but we were . younger then. When the juices are flow- : ing you can put up with any- ’ thing, even perhaps help to ~ fix it, but at our age those - ©, juices have either dried up or -" curdled.. Don’t test us too far, - we mutter defiantly. ° Funny, though, when -we're all standing in line, toe- Peking our baskets of _ Provender along the floor as we edge forward, you really ‘hear very little carping. It’s something like war-time: you know you have to rally your forces and make the best of it. It can't last forever, is what we tell each other, even though we are already hearti- ly sick of it. ( wish I understood the rationale of the (mostly) young people involved. Well, of course it's money, primari- ly, for less time spent on the job. Someone just has to tell them that life doesn't run like that. “More” has its price, too. Another thing that bothers me, with school out, is what are their children up to while _ they walk the picket line? OF course, kids these days are accustomed to coming home from schoo! to an empty house — mother’s at work — and in too many cases Dad has split. And for a lot of them, the little ones, they’ve been under the care 90 per cent of the time of some paid “sitter” since they were three months old. It gives me the willies. Which one is the “real” Mum to the child? And whose standards are being imposed? In the Thirties, the news- papers used to show us pno- tographs of babies and tod- dlers ia the Communist day- cares in Russia, where both women’s we“, and men’s work was demanded in order to lift Mother Russia into leadership. There would be three or | four babies in each crib, it was their play space, their growing-up place, their iaunch-into-life place. We here in Canada tocked with horror on these pens of confiriement, eghast at the idea of separating mother and Child at that early age. “Appalling,” we said, since our mothers were, almost without exception, always home when we got there. 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