TET TTR Oe Ne Rene eee epee eee 30 - Sunday, February 2%, 1988 - North Shore News HOW TO HELP FRIENDS REMEMBER THE BIG DAY Hint for DEAR MISS MANNERS — What, if any, is the correct way to let people know one has 2 birthday coming up and: would like to be remembered? I'm not talk- ing about expensive pres- ents, but just a card, warm greeting. or small remem- brance so the day won't bea total waste. dud h Martin *m: usually. your life and the callousness of the world, she is willing to help you. - Oddly enough, the solution is a mild version of this, something along the lines of: ‘Wow, I can't believe I'm going to be 33 on Wednesday. Really makes you stop and think, doesn't it?” DEAR MISS MANNERS — My daughter had a beautiful wedding and reception, and it broke my heart to find out a few months later that she was three months pregnant at the time of the wed- ding. I am ashamed and embar- rassed about this, My sister, who gave a bridal shower for my daughter, would like to have a baby shower for her. Under the circumstances, I don't feel right about this. Do you think it is in poor taste? GENTLE READER — Relatives donot correctly act as hosts of showers, which should be given enly by friends of the guest of honor. im the one to bake the birthday cakes, |: send the cardc, buy the gifts, etc. since’my mind is like a file cabinet.” of: calendar dates. I. don’t expect , everyone else to have this phenom- mory, ‘but. why is it that . ally rget, my: birthday? Pp. mak g it sound like'a broad hint.. . I'm: not-a kid or teenager, just a reeyded onc’ living in prime time. te their thay Jong as_that. is ‘understood, : nd-you don’t use the: occasion. to- “SUPERBA. - WHISPER QUIET | Because . quality should be seen ‘and not heard. |” #So quiet you can answer the phone while it's running: -— © Patented tripie filtration system eliminates hand rinsing. a Even heavily soiled dishes come ". sparkling clean, othe standard of dishwasher quali ‘. SEE* KitchenAid, 1 SNFDENCE : aay wir GO ERTISED 1F-YOU FIND IT_ADV REFUND LESS_WEL "Warehotise/Showroom OPEN TO THE PUBLIC: " {2 biks. behind the Avalon} :.- 1075 Roosevelt Cres., N. Van : cage ; FER, RAR IAT RE, mpreonmnepeans pe Be CANE oe e LOE Pa ELAS SNE cael ane ssiontrasaemcrsmni merits as é x a Na — wd SACD AE AH SI al ated Monda " Particnat ing dealers: —=Burtard- De ae Pacific: Honan! : Specialty Motor Cars If you wish to invoke this rule to assuage your unfortunate feelings, you certainly may, but Miss Man- Bamboniere Large selection for every oc- caslon — engagement, wed- ding & anniversary, confirma: tions, baptism & communion. Q i come to Park ROY? t and a dee a selection’ ey “iipore cars ="spi prt ania Grand” Touring models from North Shore‘and vancouver Dealers. | geet ensreasae pone SH é : E “MICE ‘Motor ‘cars| Racker x “NO th Si shore Nissan < aan JOR= “pre EOL ATTALTRT 4 s —_—— researc tte Rey PB LEEPE ATE NT OZER EMRE L EOL SR: Y, February 29th through sunday, March éth North & South Malls 4 4 PA Z pega ners can't help wishing you wouldn't. She sees nothing to be gained by retroactive shame at a Royal Porzelaine V2 off “Dogwood” series entire selection : 4 +f dn, q J ae aan eae ot ae a g 3 i ivonmcusiinenn shes Sonar mexco siseac —_— weteya Ie Be Lagenapor ensauted _Jatiow. Motors _ - = i. R courtry ragio’stations-on location’ _ Sunday, March st MAEELG PERE ssrttcl canasocpine —_ cocadl EET, time when the family should be looking ahead to welcoming your grandchild. Armani Quality, furopean sculptures, hand painted In Italy. 20% off entire stock. 254- 7351 2533 E. Hastings, Van. :Of top. rated SILTY feos, es & |. careaanceasnsn vetoing g “ Pbooey tuce sec ARR erase ca oncachsePGNN! APA SEAADNNTSE YT cy Se ee OR Gh Bet ati bea paras A SIN ger HERE Inge me EES BER et EA RENE