YOOR child’s time in preschool i is excellent preparation for kinder- garten. It’s there that they can begin to develop some of the qualities that theyll need for success in school: confidence, independence, motivation, curiosity, persistence, coopera- tion, self-control and empathy. But parents, even more than their child’s preschool experiences, help children develop these skills. Here are some suggestions from early childhood educators -that you can do to help your child get ready for school: §@ Give your child opportuni- ties to play, Play is how chil- dren learn. It is the natural way for them to explore, to become creative, and to develop acade- miic and social skills. Play helps them learn to solve problems —— for example, a wagon tips over, and children must figure out how to gt it upright again. @ Children learn about geom- etry, shapes, and balance when they stack up blocks. Playing " with others helps children learn :_,. how to negotiate. * Talk to your children, begin- © ning ‘at birth. Babies need to hear your voice. A television or _the radio can’t take the place of - your. voice because it doesn’t “respond to coos and babbles. *: "The more you. talk to your” “> Baby, the more he will have to talk.” about as he gets older. Talking with children broadens their: ‘understanding of lan- guage’.and of the world. weryday activities, such as cat- % dinner or taking a bath, provide opportunities to talk, “sometimes “in . detail, about _ what's wad and "respond our children. eir own special Cc thoughts and d eclings ge joys and and ‘sorrows, h » their language. is dei, encourage * them - to, ' Listening-is the best way a“ learn what’s on their minds: and ¢ “to: discover what they. know and don’t know, and how they . ghink’ a: NEWS photo Tezry Petocs WHEN they are read aloud to, like at this storytime session at the library, young children iearn about janguage and reading. children that their feelings and ideas are valuabie. @ Answer questions and ask uestions, particularly cones at t require more than a “yes” or “no” response. While walk- ingina rf example, most two- Or acevene olds will stop to pick up leaves, You might point out how the leaves are the same, and how they are different. With older children you might ask, “What clse grows on trees?” "Questions cari help children learn to compare . and classify things. Answer your children’s questions peo and, - whenever he encourage them to answer their own questions. If you don’t know. the answer to &@ question, say so. Then try to find the answer together. -@ Read aloud to your children every day. Reading, can begin . with. babies and continue throughout the preschool years. Even though they don’t understand the story or the | poem, reading together gives children a° chance to learn about language, enjoy the sound of your voice, and be close to you. You don’t have to be an excellent reader for your child to enjoy this time togeth- er. You may also want to cake your child to a local library that offers special story hours. Make reading materials avail- able. Children develop an interest in language and in reading much sooner if they have books and other reading materials around their homes. B Monitor television viewing. Next to parents, television may be our children’s most influen- tial teacher. Good television can introduce chifdren to new worlds and promote learning, but poor or too much TV can be harmful, @ Be- realistic about your child’s abilities and_ interests. Children -usually do best in school when parents estimate their abilities correctly. Parents must set high standards and encourage their preschocicrs to try new things. Children who aren’t challenged become bored. But ones who are pushed along too quickly, or are asked to do things that don’t interest them, can become frustrated and unhap- B “Thy to keep your children from. being labelled. Labels such 23 “dumb” or “stupid” have a powerful effect on a Maria Montessori Sori has been part of Jocated in the Har E Synagoqi School starts September 7 Montessori Schoo! child’s confidence and_ school performance. Remember to praise for a job well done. @ Provide opportunites to do and see things. 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