24 — Wednesday, May 5, 1999 — North Shore News THE two boys responsi- ble for the Littleton, Colorado school mas- sacre were tired of being called losers by those who viewed themselves as winners. Tt was a worse-case scenario of the strong driving the weak hard enough and relentlessly enough that at last, with their back tn the comer, they found Naturally Good Food | formerly at Park Royal South | no alternative but to strike back. How many alienated kids, with Internet access to danger: ous information about explo- sives, were actually cheering these events? As frightening as it might be for us to think of this, there were probably many such vouths, and Litdeton will not likely be the last time we see such rage. And, oh ves, in case We were getting a little smug, it’s not an American thing. There have been shootings in Canadian high schools since 1975. The Americans just do it bigger. There are many factors which may lead to young peo- ple going aver the edge. A combination of family dynam- ics, peer alienation, personal mental illness, and “excessive north shere news AEPARENTAL GUIDANCE petition labels ‘winners’ and ‘losers’ impulsivity may al] act to bring desperation to a particular individuel who can no longer cope with the stress. But there are also larger factors working in our society that are pushing more young people to the edges of their stress tolerance. One of them is the culture of winners and losers we have created with our extraordinary emphasis on sports. Although F was a competi tive athlete for many years, and believe that many values are Jearned from participation The perfect gift for Mother’s Day _Urder your Fruit Basket ay (reg. $35) Offer expires May 9th Fresh, local SPINACH in such activities, | wonder if it has all gone a little too far. In my childhood, I plaved very few competitive sports but spent a lot of time at play. My trends and T would go to the local park every waking hour that we were not in school and we played all manners of sports, There were no referees, no coaches, no screaming crowds — just a bunch of kids play- ing. [ remember having a lor See Losing page 26 SUNRISE STRAWBERRY PAPAYAS New luxury. Rugged as ever. The new 1999.5 QX4 includes a host of 1.w features such as front seat side-impact bags, an engine immobilizer key, and micro air tilcration system, to name but a few. Plus you enjoy power everything, heated leather front seats, 50-watt Bose CD, automatic climate control, industry-leading All-Mode 4WD and the best SUV warranty in the business: 4 years or 106,000 km. QOINFINETI Own one and you'll understand. audio system with REGENCY INFINITI 1768 Burrard Street, Vancouver (604) 739-7811