C16 - Sunday, January 23, 1983 - North Shore News . A TRAGEDY IS BORN Presen 333 Chesterfield, North Vancouver The truth about Winnipeg When | was about six years old, or perhaps seven or eight, one day I had a very. sad experience. I can sull feel what I felt then. I cried. Pll tell you about it. We lived in Winnipeg, as I had done all my life, and it was summer hohdays. Most of the kids 1 hung out with seemed to be away at Winnipeg Beach or Kenora or someplace. I had run out of things to do and was bored. 1 had my bike but I had no bright ideas about where to go. So, tike~ any normal, healthy, bored kid, 1 went into the house and said to my “Why don't you ride your bike back here to McMillan Avenue and then = over towards downtown ‘tl you come to 1514. If you do that you'll be able house born!” to see the where you~ were _— -wother, (tragically & dramatically, of course, like the world would soon end) “What will I do - I don't know what to do.” She was busy at something or other that had no interest for me but she turned to me as though she had the perfect answer to my boredom and said with enthusiasm and all sorts of positive vibes. SUPPORT WHEN ITS NEEDED “Grieving but Growing” has become a regular of- fermg in the North Shore Family Services Educational Program since the first groups came together nearly four years ago. 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She put her arm around my shoulder and sort of hugged me a bit and asked me what was the matter. Naturally, I said, “Nothing.” She gave me a little ume and then said to me again, “Don’t you want to tell me what has bothered you so? J just told you how to mde around to the house where you were born. You don't the growing edge | by Hayden Stewart Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6. for appointments for individual family or group counselling HAVE to go. It was just an idea. What upset you so?” After a httle more sobbing, | explained to her why I was so weepy. Through the tears and the sobs I told her that | had always thought I had been born in Scotland+ My grandmother, who at the time was about 80, understood perfectly my terrible let-down. She was born in Scotland and was certain, of course, that Scouand is the ONLY place to be born. 1 am _ ~not exaggerating a bit when | tell you that that grandmother of mine honestly felt terribly sorry for anyone she liked who, somehow, had missed the advantage of a Scottish birth. _ She found it difficult to understand how any decent person would be born any place, other than Scotland. It seems obvious that our prejudices are contagious. | “caught” that particular one early in life. ] hope now Il am more immune. Terry David M The WOOLGATHERER by William Mastrosimone with ulligan & Jill Daum directed by Christopher Tyrell ‘A wish is just a detour...”” Tuesday - Thursday: 8:30 pm Friday & Saturday: 7 & 9:30 pm Sunday 2 for 1: 3:00 pm uy One amb ger et One FREE For Chinese Food Buy a combination of 2 & get a 2nd combination Coupon good Jan. 23 only FREE their feelings of pain and loss. Often, the kindest neighbours and fnends are unable to offer the kind of listening that 1s needed. 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