" C6 - Sunday News, July 19, 1981 oak al QUESTION: if I have a criticism of your delightful column, it lies im your seeming avoidance of social issues. Is it your deliberate choice to be thus? STEWART: Glad you said “seeming” avoidance of social issues. I feel like I'm right in there! I am grateful for many of the social action groups. Whatever weaknesses they have seem to me to stem from the excesses of those members who are idolatrous regarding their group and its stance. The strength in them comes through their members who are respectful of their own convictions and are BEING the change they want to see happen. I am even grateful for the: ex- cesses to which some social action groups go. When no one “goes too far.” there is an unhealthy tendency on the part of the rest of us to be so laid back that we don’t go anyplace! We are in dire need of ‘social action,” and [| am convinced that the best ask hayden stewart ) d the social issues, VMayden Stewart Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-624. for appotntments for individual. family or group counselling. His office in the International Plaza Hotel (Open Tuesdays only) is for the convenience of North Shore residents. quality of social action comes through individuals who are living lives of in- tegrity and courage and risk and utter commitment to always saying “YES!” to their own -inner convictions. We need more and more people who are saying. “Here stand J, so help me God.” And I want to be one of them. You make the choice QUESTION: I have messed up aay life in recent years by just kind of coasting along. am 54 years of age. Do you think there is a chance of making a whole-vew start? I don't want to improve a little bit. i want to make a new beginning. I sappose I have a lot going for me, but [ve tended to give up under swimwear “Everything and Anything. got it!” We've pressure. What are my wef QUESTION: I get the I'll see what 1] can do - once “The way to a man's heart chances? feeling that the format you = in a while - like on Arbor is through his stomach - STEWART: You can decide Ar aTIAKS use for your column ties you Day or Mother-in-Law’s unless he’s a vegetarian or to make your chances “wees down a bit. I'd like to hear Day. something.” (I think Pl stick GOOD! No one else will some of your own com- mercials once in a while that are not necessarily answers te questions: Something like with the old format!) have the say. But YOU have : . ; the say. What are you going gered ZAS-BES" to say? GIVE..£ GIVE LIFE! f ‘your editor’s closing paragraph that he titles “Wright or Wrong.” What do you think? ~ We’re counting STEWART: Im relieved to f hear that at least one reader on you: is not thinking that there is 7 too much HAYDEN The Canadian Red Cross Socrety STEWART in this column. ) ite you ay c to take advantage of our 2S ! Weight Loss Clinic program is now 50% off | Summer Sale : ‘ta. 18 price-only | | N \} id | ; e | Most Custom Fabrics | 5 yards or more Re-Upholstery Examples: Standard Chesterfield Standard Armchair ‘ Labour 295 OO Labour 195 00 Now for a limited time only, Call for a free weight loss 10 yds at $20 per 200 00 5 yds at $20 per 100 OO our $98.00 program 18 yours consultation But do it now for 1/2 price Only $49.00 because the price may never TOTAL - 495.00 TOTAL - 295.00 Take advantage of our be WW slim again! aight « special and jose lt HiT t xtra Charge for starts back Cushions. new foam rubber weight without fa lets, wo special styt drugs or strenuous exercises | 7 ( Wa CUI N IC special styles and repairs “ . ~~ a KERRISDALE 2309 WEST 4157 AV ett ae hit ta Shion nome DOWNTOWN 625 HOWE ST, SUITE 330 1 NO. VANCOUVER 166 EAST 15TH ST 986-4385 | ] [ CO SURREY 15226 104TH AVE SUITE 101 688-2911 racer ORS RICHMOND LANSDOWNE. PLAZA, SUITE 209 278-3161 ; BURNABY BRENTWOOD MALL, 4667 LOUGHEED HWY | SUITE 201 2048561 3050 Mountain Highway, North Vancouver VICTORIA COOK MEDICAL BLDG , 1176 COOK ST SULTE 308 384.7177 Tue.-Fri. 9:00-5:30 NEW WESTMINSTER WESTMINSTER MALL. 655 6TH ST #320 528 7361 Sat 10:00-5.00 Vine and Meastert ard walveme Danie 6 pm Men Fe WE PGIEE LOSS CLINICS OF AMERICA INC COR: 988- 1 220 988-] 525 CLOSED MONDAY 111 LOCATIONS THROUGHOUT NORTH AMERICA “4 ¢ ~ Miow ' Ubersee (Pmt,