QUESTION: E don't know | He acts like a boor:He looks
what.is happening to my bus- like he.does not know 2 thing
band.'He has changed alotin about, manners and proper
his attitude toward ordinary etiquette. _He won't talk
politeness and proper man-_ seriously: about it but jokes
ners. He used.to be very man- about it. When I say, “Why
nerly:. without. being .at all didn’t you bold that.door for
“sticky’’ about it. You don’t - me?”’ He just laughs and asks
ever-get the idea he was stiff . me if I am too small or-weak

and overly formal. He always: to handle a door. He’s. not -

seemed to be

just naturally.“ nasty.about it or sarcastic, be
polite, a

just acts like it’s all an amus-
ing development. He has

_ But two or three years ago - simply set aside his interest in

he started to change andright —_ doing the right thing. What is

now he embarrasses me all happening to him and what

thetime with hisrefusaltodo can I do about it? ~

and-say the right thing.“Go- oe

ing into a::restaurant © he'll I must say, to be honest,
._follow the receptionist tothe that he is just as warm and ~“

table instead of standing lovilig and just as much fun -
aside for me to go first, and as ever. he was. It’s just that
by the time I get to the table he has forgotten all about
he is already seated and look- manners.

ing at the ‘menu. He. never STEWART: So glad you ad-
holds my chair for me or ded that last sentence. It
helps me with my coat, etc. leads me to suspect that he

Poa

may have stumbled’ inio
discovering that, at least for
him, a lot of the traditional
propriecties and manners and

etiquette have become a.

habitual thing without as

much real meaning as his ear- _. F

ly conditioning -prompted
him to believe. Note that you
-say he is just as warm and
loving and as much:fun as
‘ever. Perhaps he has found
that much of his training

. regarding manners is not now
as important. as he used to-

think. He may now see some
of the things you consider to

be the ‘‘right' stuff’ (like

holding doors and chairs etc.)
as being nothing much more
than ‘“‘rite stuff’. He may
have found a freedom from
some of the ‘“‘rite’’ stuff and
is concentrating more on
what he sees as the RIGHT

stuff — warm, love, fun.
Possible?

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Look on -the bright side!
His unwillingness to explain
his change may be (i hope)
because of a desire on his
part to let you discover for
yourself the joy of freedom
that he has begun to ex-

_CT- Wenesday, January 25, 1984 - North Shore News

ask hayden stewart

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Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242
» for appointments for individual, family or group counselling.

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perience. From where you are
standing, it may look as
though he has forgotten the
right stuff and that you
*‘should”” be | embarrassed
about it. But why? oe
_ If you, together, take the

risk of discovering more and
more warmth and love and
fun and see it as part of the
bably be increasingly. free to
escape from the deadly wor-
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