| HEAVEN’S ABOVE AOBERT AIKEN “IT TAKES ONE TG TANGO” COMMON complaints: “My husband can't communi- cate." “My wife nags.” Women particularly com- plain about lack of commu- nication in relationships. Men are more action-ori- ented which doesn’t mean that a man is less commit- ted or less in love if he isn't talking about. his feelings. Women communicate in a different language (please refer to last week's col- umn). One common problem in two-career families is that the couple doesn’t make the relationship a priority. Want to do something for the kids? Make your rela- tionship a priority. Often the woman is eager for her husband to come home so she'll have an adult to talk with. But he’s usually exhausted and can't/won't talk. Wives in that situation say that they had toe get out of the mar- riage because their own needs were not being met. Point is: Even if just one person wants to save the marriage, the couple best not give up hone. Untike the old adage that “It takes two to tango,” it does not always take two to save a marriage. It can take one to tango, as long as that one is willing to take the initiative and change first. October 20-26, 1996 ARIES (March 2t-April 20) Conversations rewarding, early week. Mid-week, romance connected with finance. Focus on financial negotiations, Friday and Saturday. TAURUS (April 21-May 21) Be the voice of reason. early week, Taurus. Avoid self-indulgence, mid-week. Play, Friday. Finances good, Saturday. GEMINI (May 22-June 21} A possible reunion, early week. Be efficient. mid- .|week. Life at work, good. Friday. You may be called to help someone. Saturday. CANCER (June 22-July 23) Emphasis on — shared finances, early week. Welcome a new assign- ment, mid-week. Take time off, Friday and Saturday. LEO (duly 24-Aug. 23) Improve communication with partner, early week. 1% Opportunity for a iow-cost vacation, mid-week. A career transition, Friday and Saturday. VIRGO (Aug. 24-Sept. 23) |¢ improve your health, early week. Introduce new ideas, mid-week. Take the lead. Friday and Saturday. LIBRA (Sept. 24-Oct. 23) Drive carefully, early week, Libra. opportunities, mid-week. Exercise needed, Friday and Saturday. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. |: 22) Avoid gossip, early week, Scorpio. Set things straight, mid-week. Greater affinity with co-workers, Friday and Saturday. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23- Dec. 21) Choose words carefully, early week. Discuss house-}; hold finances, mid-week Avoid relatives’ finances Friday. Look after health Saturday. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan 20) : Act on money-making plans, early week. Homey: lite excellent, mid-week. Communications improve Friday and Saturday. AQUARIUS (Jan. 21-Feb.19) Balance romance and} practicality, early week. Mid-week, could mean promotion. Travel leads to prosperity, Friday and Saturday, PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) An unexpected money challenge, early week, Pisces. A friend provides 1: abundance, mid-week. You |; are popular, Saturday, express feelings. Robert Aiken: an interna- {Eas tionally known astrologer as and therapeutic counselory¢ with 38 years experience. He offers counseling sessions as well ast astrological = — readings. Phene Carole : 926-4961. _[WCB_ For an appointment, please call 1921 “7057 is .: Money-making [2 Friday. (Sen | ACUPRESSURE Announcing “ISHIATSE CLINIC! ar the Start-Up of Bonita Hartung AVALON Alanna Lane THERAPEUTIC MASSAGE CLINIC INC #107-383, 16th St. WEST VAN. opted-in © Dr of Traditional Chinese Medicine MC * Certified Reflexetogist & Reiki Practitioner available Nock and Shoulder Pain caused by stress and tension? Try our relaxing therapeutic muscle toning machines. iT WORKS! | VERY AFFORDABLE 1 hour session less than $5.00 Located in Ambleside, West Van. Phone MARION 922-0343 Gordon B. Barmhelden, 6HT Many people have come for my acupressure shiatsu sessions and eaperienced relief from: © Scress "$095 ‘| © Low energy levels discount «Tension headaches *. . * Neck & shoulder