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swers questions abou: such topics
as government policies and pro-
grams, benefits, consumer and
legal rights, taxation and public
services.

Questio:: My wife’s parents
were very permissive and she wants

to bring up our two boys in a sim-
Jar way.

They are four and six yesrs old
and cut of control, but she won’t
allow me to discipline them. ‘ihis is
really disrupting ous faulty life.

ts this an area that cap be
handled by mediation or would
counselling be more effective?

Answer: Sometimes it is difficult

to see the difference between
medistion and counselling. Both
services deal with similar
problems, but the focus is not the
same.

Counsellise is mure concerned
with understanding the c:notions
of the people involved. It often
deals with the past, and helps the
participants understand how past

actions and feelings have led to the
present situation.

“Mediation involves two or more”
people in conflict finding solutions
to specific problems.

In your case there seems to be
disagreement between your wife
and yourself about how to deal

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