QUESTION: My father promised me two years ago’~ that when I graduated from high school, he would give me a Corvette. I was to get it this August. I've been looking forward to it and like a dumbbell, I've told ail my friends about it. Now what happens? Well, my dad says he's sorry but his business has gone into hard times and that he won't he able to keep his promise. Just like that. I thought a promise was a promise especially when it comes QUESTION: Have you an opinion you would care to share with us about the movie, Caligula and about the opposition to it that is being spear-headed by Bernice Gerrard? STEWART: I have not seen the movie. I have heard very litle about the opposition 1981 international Year of Disabled Persons HAVE A BALL BOWLING! BUSINESS LADIES LEAGUE t TUESDAY 9PM - ideal for the working gal For furthor information contact: NORTH SHORE BOWL 141 West 3rd St. NORTH VANCOUVER 985-1212 from your own father and mother. My mother knew about the promise and she went along with it. Now they just back off and act like a promise has mo importance at all. He says he'll get me a little cheap car instead. I feel like a fool just imagining how my friends will give me the old hee haw when I tarn up with a Mini Minor or something. Do you think that's fair? STEWART: I am sure it is very difficult for you to feel you refer to. So, that establishes me as being unqualified to respond in- telligently to your question. However, I am quite willing to respond unintelligently! Having heard one review of the movie, only, and having heard only one commentary regarding Bernice Gerrard’s reaction to it, I might guess that were J] better informed, I would probably dislike the movie and (even more Most Custom Fabrics 5 yards or more Re-Uphoistery Examples: Standard Chesterfield Standard Armchair Labour - 295 00 Labour 195 00 10 yds at 5 yds at $20 per 200 OO $20 per 100 00 TOTAL 495.00 TOTAL - 295.00 ttre Charge tor sturta beck Cum wons ome foam eudotror ApoOcal styters and saps fashion Nnorne raCerRiors Lt 3050 Mountain Highway, North Vancouver 988-1525 988-1220 Tue Fn 9-00 5 30 CLOSED MONDAY But he promised a Corvette the same way your dad does about how things have worked out in his business. But for some people, these last few years have brought about some awfully difficult ratuations. It must be terribly hard for your dad to go back on his*promise, but ap- parently he has to do that. Yc are in a position to show ome loving un- derstanding and to case some of the weight your dad is carrying. Give him a break. Be a good sport. He is not trying to go back on his ask hayden stewart Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 for appointments for individual. family or group counselling. His office in the International Plaza Hotel (Open Tuesdays only) is for the convenience of North Shore residents. When ignorance is bliss probably) dislike Ms. Gerrard’s way of dealing with it. In all probabality, (if I were better informed) I would prefer a rotten movie to Bernice’s way of opposing it, (and = incidentally, promoting it.) As I say, I am speaking from my comfy position of ignorance. That rumbling you hear comes from the enthusiasts of both sides of the confrontation, fervently saying AMEN! Sat 10-00 3:00 ‘promise just to hurt you, but because he has to. If you have passed your grade XI, I am sure you are smart enough to see that. About your friends, I feel sure that most of them will understand. The ones who don't are not very good friends anyway. Let them have their day of acting like grade 5 people instead of young men and women with some feelings and under- standing. A Mini Minor is a lot of fun. But even a Corvette would not give you as big a charge as being a feeling, warm, loving daughter who understands the facts of life and is able to be grown up enough to put her dad at ease and be grateful for his being willing to go the Mini Minor route when he probably can’t afford it. North Vancouver. 341 Lonsdale Vancouver tith & Granville Open. Mon Wed. & Sat 9:30-6, Thurs & Fri 9 30-9 Vancouver's own fabric store since 1946 C21 - Weduesday, Sept. 2, 1981 - North Shore News URZE Wa nee [ax { yy Gillian invites you (7 to visit her & Julie at her salon in NSA Joint Too) GILLIAN Edgemont Village (formerly The Clip 3103 Woodbine, North Van e 986-0920 ; HEALTH & BEAUTY MOVEMENT Get in shape and keep fit with Rhythmic Exercise & Movement for ail ages Starts Sept. 15th-9:45 a.m. Day Classes - Tuesday & Thursday St. Andrew & St. Stephens Church 2641 Chesterfield, NorthVancouver Eve. Class Tues. 7:15 p.m. E1. School 1250 Mathers, W.V. . Phone 926-5185/985-2464 Annual Membership $3.00 Ciass Fee $1.50 (no advance payment) 080-4433 736-4565