§2 ~ Sunday, Dezember 7, 1986 - North Shore News Lifestyles Cut out in-law correspondence DEAR MISS MANNERS — FH be moving soon and would like some input on how to handle long-distance cor- respondence with my parents-in-law, both of whom are very poor communicators. convention if you will oblige her on two small points. The first is that, when you pass the duty on to your husband, you refrain from stating your griev- While we lived within 20 miles of each other, our family gather- ings were held mainly because of tradition, and many times they were strained. I am my husband's second wife and was never made to feel part of the family. miss manners and that, since it is his family, not mine, he should take over the re- sponsibility? GENTLE READER — It has always seeme_ reasonable to Miss Manners that people should write their own letters to their own parents, and rather odd to have this job removed by the convention of considering all social let- ter-writing to be the wife’s duty. She will therefore join you in wishing good riddance to such a ances about how the family treats you. Their being his parents is reason enough. The second is that if, in fact, he does not perform this duty, you generously undertake to send them major family news. Miss Manners is not asking for regular letter- writing — just letting them know when someone in your household has been promoted, has a more than routine illness or is having a baby. INVITES YOU TO OUR FANTASTIC WAREHOUSE SALE AJ 261 CENTRAL, VANCOUVER FEATURING: desks, dining tables & chairs, coffee tables, armoires, buffets, TV cabinets and MUCH, MUCH MORE! OUR USUAL QUALITY FURNISHINGS AT SPECTACULAR PRICES LARGE SELECTION OF UNFINISHED CHAIR Wolo Correction Notice by Judith Martin I have observed that traditional- ly the wife keeps up the let- ter-writing to her husband’s fami- ly, but I have no desire to carry this on. Should I tell my husband that I am not comfortable with it FURNITURE © Coffee and Dining Tables ¢ China Cabinets, Etagere * Italian “Breuer’’ Cane Chairs © Lamps, Mirrors © Cooler-Bars Etc. Re. The Christmas at Woolco flyer that appeared on Dec. 7, 1986 Page 6 - The pictures on the Tempo Cordless Cosmetic Mirror and the SONORA Grand Classi- que Make Up Collection have been transposed. The ad copy is correct. Wolo Depariment Stores CHINA & GIFTWARE ‘‘FURSTENBERG'’ ¢ Dinnerware In Over 20 Patterns To Choose From, Serving Pieces * Porcelain Gifts QUALITY ‘‘BERNDORF’’ FLATWARE * Dessert, Dinner and Fish Flatware * Baby-spoons and Children’s Sets CRYSTAL ADIAC HOME FURNISHING ALL SALES FINAL OPEN FRI. TILL 8 PM SUNDAYS 11 AM-4 PM 2421 Granville St. 733-2621 The VITAMIN EXPERTS! North Shore Health Foods Your One Stop Nutritional Shop North Shore Health Foods Capilano Mall 984-4444 We Guarantee The Lowest Prices! Classifieds Sell 986-6222 FRAMES COCKTAIL TABLES CHAIRS FROM ony®* GQ From? 1 25 rrom 90 HURRY reg. $595 zeg. $650 LAST CHANCE FOR PUBLIC TO BUY! SALE ENDS FRIDAY, DECEMBER 12th WESTERN TERMINAL 261 CENTRAL INDUSTRIAL Mon.-Fri. 9am - 5:30pm Sat. 10am - 4pm Cash and Carry All Sales Final Withaet Danzer MINUTES FROM THE SOUTH SIDE OF THE NEW ALEX FRASER BRIDGE 25 minutes from downtown Vancouver UNBELIEVABLE VALUE! PRICED FROM $85,500 Smallest Residence 1156 sq. ft. ‘Kehmedy Tower Do mit os * Adult oriented « Titled ownership * Owner occupied only ‘© 105 luxury units 1 bedroom and den or Y » Fabulous view « Allsuites 1100 sq. ft. 2 bedroom - all ensuite and over Z turing: 4 major appliances * Whirlpool- recreation and hobby centre « Security underground ng , Ail lamenities close by ¢ Washer and dryer hookups incach unlt * Gas fireplaces top 3 Ss