MAD-ON FOR WOMEN

Why do they prefer their husbands?

QUESTION: I just want to
do a little belly-aching rather
than asking you a question.
Ive got a mad on for women
and thought Fd blow off
some steam. P've been going
around with a married
woman who has been

separated from her husband
for almost six months. ['ve
been thinking she Is great.
Everything has been {deal.
Even though

we'd been

seeing each other only about
three months we got as far as
talking seriously about
marriage when she is free to
go that route. So you can see
that both of us were pretty
happy with each other. Then
one morning she started off
the day by telling me she
didn't feel she was doing the
right thing and that she

wanted to go back to her |

husband and make a new
Start!

Even though her husband
has been wanting her to
come back, I can't see how a
woman can talk marriage
with me one day and decide
to go back to her husband
the next.

My gripe is about how un-
dependable women are. You
won't believe it, but this ts

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the third time that this sort
of thing has happened to me!
Three times (count ‘em) I've
been having a great time
with women who are
separated from their
husbands and _ they've
suddenly decided to go back
to what they had left.
Women!

STEWART: What do you
want of me? Do you want me

to do some theorizing about
women in general, like you
are doing? I'll go along with
that just long enough to say
that probably women in
general are more “depen-
dable” than you think they
are and = probably much

My time ts special.
My friends are special.
So my rye 1s special.

smarter than you think they
are.

How come you so often
pursue separated women?
Can it be that you consider a
relationship with them safer
for you? Perhaps you can
enjoy them up to the point
where something more
permanent is talked about,
and then you (consciously or
subconsciously) see to it that
they decide against con-

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tinuing the relauionship.

Do you subscribe to the
theory that IT’S NOT
WHETHER YOU WIN OR
LOSE BUT... HOW YOU
PLACE THE BLAME?

Perhaps you are almost
ready to move toward a real

loving relationship. It need
pot be nearly as frightening
as you appear to think it is.
You've had three lessons (at
least) and it may be you can
altow them to be learning
experiences instead of poor-
me experiences. It could be
that you are not really a
person with a “mad-on for
women” but one with a mad-
on for yourself. Why not be
kinder to yourself and allow
yourself the experience of
loving? It works.

BUCKLE UP!
Seat belts
save lives.

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