a - Hayden | Stewart. Freelance Counsellor. Hayden 7 Stewart may be reached at ' .261-6242 for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. His new office in the Plaza international Hotel [open Tuesdays only] is for the convenience _ of North Shore - residents. QUESTION: Is gambling a disease, like drinking? My - husband bet on the ’ Bowl. And how he bet! He ‘must have made at least nine bets and he bet on both teams! That seented silly to me but he tried to explain something he called the point system. It didn’t make sense to me, but when he told me he lost seven of his nine bets ‘and wound up $220 in the. hole, that I could under- stand. I was, and_I still am, furious about it. | But I get the feeling he can’t help it. He even goes to a place where he buys so PARK ROYAL LUCKY LEMON WINNERS ........ here have all th QUESTION: Have men changed over the years or is... “it me? When I was younger I_ used to go out and have a really good ‘time dancing with a group of friends and doing sports and a lot of things that are enjoyable. Seems, to me that in them - days men were different, more devoted and gentle- men. They used to take a girl - out a lot, give ‘presents and treat a woman really special. Now every time I meet a man all he wants to do is take you. to bed and calls on a woman only for that. It’s not right. It makes a woman feel* like she. is being used. Pm 40 and still attract men “even younger than me. I keep myself pretty good for my age. But I am very ‘much monopoly money and then plays for keeps. How “Super crazy can you get? He talks about how much fun it is, but he also admits that he really has lost an awful fot of money and that he’s foolish to keep it up and that he’s going to. quit. The same day he’s at it again. Is he sick? — STEWART: Perhaps. h all depends what YOU mean by **sick’*. The fact of the matter is that some people feel they are helpless against their gambling urges. They may try all sorts of methods charge of end up of being in themselves, but ‘years and haven't anywhere nice. disappotited in the men: of today. Since I’ve been divorced and on my own again, I can’t find any man that will take me. out to dinner and nice places. They either have a drinking problem or just want to fool around. [ve been in Vancouver three been How do I meet a nice guy my age in this city that may have something to offer for a . ‘change and’ not just want soniething? P.S. Maybe P’m too fussy. Please tell me if I am. STEWART: | don’t think you are too fussy. I think you are beautiful. fussy about wanting com- Is gambling a disease?) defeated, or at least, feeling that they are defeated. With some' people it is a heart- -breaking experience. ae If you husband sincerely wants help, be sure he finds out about Gamblers Anony- mous. 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