10 - Friday, April 12, 1985 - North Shore News a vane Who pays for daycare By JOANNE MACDONALD “Parents are responsible’ Joan” Gadsby, CNV : District Ald. ‘‘Parents have. the ultimate responsibility to... ensure adequate ."daycare ‘supervision for ‘have worked, 1 chosen the route of hiring - babysitters, : ' housekeepers For: my ve, © “culated: 4 . over” hildren, pre-school ‘age, <" their children under the age of - 14 years. in the 21 years I- have . kindergarten. Thirty-six per. cent are cared for in the home and_11-per cent attend daycare..-In, the six to 14-year-old age’ group, ich: represents i 3:2 ‘mil- ‘tion: Canadian ‘children, ‘care. after. school is. pro- vided. by: relatives,’ friends cent take care of themselves, “For the fortunate mom who can stay at home I have the utmost - respect. I have never had the choice of staying home but I sincerely believe ‘my children have not suffered as a result. It _is not the quantity of time a mother spends with her children that counts, but the quality of the time. Children of career moms learn responsibility, in- dependence, and maturity ‘much earlier. b..en shown in studies on the subject. What is im- _ portant is to let your ‘children know you love them, are providing con- sistency and continuity ‘in their lives, and that they can grow up. feeling their feet are firmly planted on. ‘They © also. “learn to be more. adapt- the ground. able, flexible and to share in the family workload.’’ This has- “Busines Donna Stewart, National Action Committee, Status of Women ‘Daycare has to be the . fesponsibility of business and government as well as parents. It’s in the in- terest of business to- en- sure workers. aren’t distracted by child. care concerns and government has a responsibility because. children are our most signifi icant natural resource. I would love to see daycare in large work places so parents. could visit. their children “at lunch and travel to and from work with them.” ‘NAC has a master” pian that would’ see’ good daycare accessible in every community, . “Some parents have . cating skills and enjoy small. children. Others are depressed by the isolation and begin to'think of the child as: a burden and parenting as an unpleas- » mean neglect of children. "It keeps a parent ‘from ses should pay” do two jobs ‘isn’t good either and that’s why. society has an-interest in providing. good daycare or after-school care, “A survey done recent- ly. showed : stay-at-home mothers have less self-. esteem than - any _ other women.. That’s | terribly. sad because they’ re doing something really impor- tant. Providing adequate , daycare would give them a choice and automatical- ly. raise their self-esteem, . Adding: tax credits..and _ pension ; recugnition of the importance of..their . ‘ child-rearing . would. atso help. I give great credit to: women who can afford ‘stay home and‘ who : - pressure’ te become. wage: earners while. thei ant chore. Working out- side the. home doesn't The quality of time spent ‘with children is more im- portant than the ‘quantity. ‘ . choice. and ° still .cthers: smothering the kids. On know their families “<- the other hand, an. ex- happier when ‘he. hausted parent trying to - work.’ “Algg attend ursery ‘school or... the youth returned home to .§ find the master bedroom had. :B been ransacked. - : : The. rnissing’ jewelry: been estimated at $5,000. |. ‘rons’ said police currently have no suspects in connec- tion with the .robbery. : The - investigation is continuing. ~.” and was startled to find the ‘family’s son asleep in.bed. “Irons ‘said “the suspect im-. medisyly fled the scene, but : waking up the “the ‘robbery: unti} 12:45 p.m., however, . .when’ the sister OF agreed... _with. the cino ‘and: Mayor Jack Loucks . features’ ‘of the development were in:favor of ‘the increas: _ ed tax base, employment and - : community. access © the’. ‘mall : would provide. -. * “While Ald. Hall and Dean the limited: parking and the “looks of the exterior of. the ‘Suilding.” . O8.. New York. Steak. $0. 95 at’ “CAPILANO. 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