23- North Shore News — Sunday, December 24, 2000 g should YOUR financial adviser should extend the spirit of | : giving to the whole year as . far as (1) sincerely caring - fer you and your family, : and (2) comm: unicating : : Never underestimate the power : of a kind word or caring gesture, psychologist and family therapist Rhonda Karz advised a group of. financial planners. . “We're dealing with emotions. all che time — gricf, fear, pride, - shame, énvy, anger,” she said. familics are € often : about different per- sonalities and val-. ues, and how some - : people need more ° and some want _ . more.” A couple nearing retirenient came to see me, worried because they still * had debts and no savings. iscovered. their large family returned home every Christmas, Which drained the couple’ S Sav- ings. : ol made some suggestions and» “also pointed out many parents) would give any money to have: -. their adult chiidren return home each year. - Your adviser should ask about your par- ents and/or. chil- dren (grandchil- dren)... : * Your finances often link with ‘theirs — and how you feel about. ie link | must form part of your an, An adviser who neglects to matters sonal explore fully the personal side of financial planning cannot give you ° roper advice. . -To earn your trust, the adviser should show s/he cares about. more than just your money. - Sure, it’s a business relation- ship, but I have always maintained this sort of planning is 60 per cent: personal, 40 per cent financial. And that leads to the other :. “gift” you should expect all year. ‘froin your adviser: clear language. If you don’t understand ‘what your. adviser is saying, it’s her/his. fault, not yours. - _ of undecstinding: Speak up the first time some: thing isn’t clear. The adviser must talk and write’ to you in terms you can under: stand. If not or if s/he gets imp: tent, find soniebody else. . Mike Grenby is a columnist ‘and inde pendent personal financiai adviser; he'll answer questions in thi - column as space allows but éannot reply personally. Contact kim at P.O. Box 50029, : South Slope “R:P.O. \: Burnaby, B.C. V5]..§G3;: e-mail * mike@grenby.com and see. previous, Don’ t be ashamed of your. lacl columns at .. With a fair degree of certain- “ty that 45 years after birth, tes go up, stock market activity-will go up too. And. indeed, as the baby. boom generation moves throug. their'peak spending years has driven the market up. Dent’s optimism for-the** . = ° And what it future of the market is based". simoly. this: ing on one demographic certain Roane shares, and invest ty: that the. bulk of the baby ¢ long term: boomers have yet to hit thei Don’t get Panicked when peak. spending years. The there’ kes U.S. birth rate peaked in the early, 1960s, and a quick bi of math shows us that these’ THE stock market i isa. , (city, province: country) by notoriously fickle - ‘age, income, sex, education, occupation, etc. For exam=.: ple,.45 per cent of the adult male population of B.C. wear boxers, 32 per cent wear briefs; and the remain- ing 23 per ‘cent’ go ‘au -naturel, there are 25,392 pick indiv < does provide a guid “ what your investm gy should be matically, then just as quic ly, phen « Tayestors can and lose — a for- the Fone investors moa! as their fatest hor ticket: yestment cools.’ “Then we id invest in. stocks that are going to’ ge. up in price seem to > be coming true, ; his theories are Feceiving a “lot of positive attention, as is his new, book, The Roaring 2000s, which he argues - that while the 1990s were “good, the next ten years will see even greater economic : ’ growth Here is Dent’s the 20ry in On average, 3 an ‘And ual’s peak spending: i "” years are between the ages | 5.and 50-: “ cinate polisters, marketers. and advertisers, but prove... deathly boring to the rest of. brokerage: firms. € Baby B ‘enters the savings aid invest ‘nt phase of their. li ow invest ‘smart! ‘ago an economist named Harry Sz Dent. wrote i a | book: stocks, g s the pepe you:cair predict the overall’ trends of the'market by; ‘studying demographics. ' stock market es ane Fromm his analysis of histo- - ; people are “putting r money. “ty, he predicted that ‘America © away into savings and inves! bell, demograph was.on the cusp of.a great conomic boom::A decade ics is a way Of categorizing’ f: $69.99 TENNIS BALL: UMIT 2 PER CUSTOMER HEAD PREMIER TOUR "HEAD DISCOVERY. ANTIGUA GOLF CLOTHING STORMIECH RAINGEAR -