14 ~ Sunday, July 21, 1991 —- North Shore News ASK A surprisingly direct question — What do men like women to wear? — and you'll get a surprisingly direct answer. The result is this column on the clothes men love on women, and what they feel should be banished to the back of the closet. Carol Crenna FASHION STATEMENTS if you think a man never notices what a woman wears, you are dead wrong. Though he may bow out of ‘‘the shopping experi- ence’’ with her, he almost always has an opinion on how she should dress. Contrary to what you might expect, men don’t want to see women in tight and tarty attire. The piece de resistance of a woman’s wardrobe, according to surveyed North Shore men, is a subtle blend of femininity, flair and fit. You say you’ve been determin- ing what you should wear, and how you wear it, for years and there’s no reason to change. But, while you're resisting change and influence of others, you may find yourself caught in a one-dimen- sional rut. Your wardrobe should reflect all aspects of your perscn- ality, including those dimensions that men admire most. A steady diet of dress for suc- cess staples and double-duty weekend wear miay satisfy your wearing needs, but what about his? If his response to your anti- cipating ‘“‘How do I look?’ is a hasty ‘‘Very nice, dear” with his head still buried in the Funnies, you know its time to add another dimension to your wardrobe. Granted, your own style and tastes should occupy the major pertion of your closet, but there isn’t anything wrong with dressing to please him, while you’re dress- ing for yourself. Here, some well respected North Shore men compile a per- sonal list of dress codes for women of the "90s. © Mark Sager, Mayor, West Van- couver: Mayor Sager likes a woman who has a comfortable, relaxed attitude in the way she dresses, which reflects his West Vancouver lifestyle. “*T prefer the simpler attire. And I prefer a classic style to one that follows trends,"' he says. A comfortable outfit, he says, could include pants or a= skirt. One of his first choices for a relaxed look is a long gathered, navy skirt with a country paisley print. “it's my favorite skirt that my wife wears with a white eyelet blouse. She gets ured of hearing me comment on it, and says she cant wear the same thing every FASHION Male orders Clothing men like to see women wear day.’’ He adds, ‘I love navy ... it’s the color of the week for me.”’ Sager feels that business suits have their place, but he would rather a woman dressed casually. He also loves to see a woman in skiing or sailing gear, influenced by his own avid interest in both sports. He offers the example of his wife’s pink polo T-shirt and shorts, worn on their bout, when she also wears very litte makeup. Sager says that he would admire a woman more in loose fitting clothes rather than Gght ones, and he Tikes the shorter skirts, but states that there is a point where they are overdone. He also adds, “the new ‘60s looks wouldn't be my first chotece.** © Charles Wilkinson, film direc- tor/producer: Wilkinson, a North Vancouver resident, is one of Canada’s most prominent members of the movie industry, responsible for films such as Quarunting, My Kind of Town and Blood Chu. Wilkinson is attracted to a woman whe has a confident, in- dividualistic sense of style, one whose attitude toward her clothes is *Hey, I've got it. And if you’re net interested, who asked you?” He says, ‘Visualize anything that Barbie has ever worn — | prefer the exact opposite of that. The model image of Barbie wears tight’ polyester, California looks, bicycling shorts and tights, day- glo colors ... | hate all of that.” He likes clothing that is ‘‘at- tractive, but not overly designed, something that doesn't detract at- tention. An unadorned garment reveals the prety woman who is wearing it."* Wilkinson says, “TP have found that when women dress for a formal evening, they are unclear as to who thes are trying to im- press, and Totruly feel that it is other women, rather than men, 1 don’t know one man who under- stands 3 woman's evening wear. Masi of it is so stylized, and ‘sty- lish’ is not understood.’* Referring to women’s outfits seen at a local bar, he adds, “Surely they can’t mean what their outfits are saying.”’ He liked the Annie Half look during its time, and really admired Molly Ringwald’s wardrobe in the movie Pretty in Pink (though, he did not feel that she looked good in pink, ironically). He says, ‘‘Her natural-fibre bag-lady look — is great. A lot of my friends dress like that, with an eelectic style.” He adds, “I don't like how women are dressing to a code that someone else has written, H's amazing what Barbie-ism does to at person.” © Art Jones, president, The Varie- ty Club: Jones, a West Vancouver resident, believes in the art of ap- propriate dressing. He says, *T feel chat it: should be the right thing at the right time. { like to see ladies in all their finery, but there is a time for it, as well as a time for being ca- sual. | believe in traditiona! ele- gance.”* Proper dressing, he concludes, depends upon the time, the place and the person. His ideal look is described as “‘casual elegance,’ in tailored clothing, with a certain amount of femininity. “I am not a fan of jeans and T-shirts. There are other types of casual clothing that flat- ters a woman more,”” he says. He adds ‘‘I like the party dress, but I also like the pantsuit. § love glamor and good taste, and the gal who knows how to dress for the occasion. * Dave Toddington, TV pro- ducer/police officer: As a pro- ducer at Shaw Cable TV, an RCMP officer in North Van- couver, and a licensed pilot, you may wonder when Toddingion has time to notice women, but he knows what he likes. Toddington is attracted to women who look shapely in shapeless clothes. ‘‘l like the jeans and T-shirt type with looser clothing rather than tight. Com- fortable clothing. St like the kind of person who looks more adventurous and out- doorsy as opposed to a more fluf- fy, overly fashion-conscious per- son. If someone is athletic look- ing, 1 think you will be able to tell even if they are wearing a tent!’ He admires an ‘‘earthy, person- alized look, which is much more functional than fashion- conscious.’’ He likes women with ‘attainable’ beauty rather than glossy covergirl! looks seen in Magazines, that are “‘not true to life.’ He says his ideal woman would be wearing khaki walking shorts and a loose, litte top. He adds, “If their clothing is too revealing it can lead to an ob- jectification of women, seeing them as an object rather than as an individual.”’ * Don Taylor, Special Olympics furdzaiser: Taylor is an cieht-year veteran of the B.C. Lions who diverted his athletic interests from football to track and field for the handicapped. He lives in North Vancouver. Taylor admires a woman with a well-rounded personality, which is reflected in the way she dresses. “She should look as comfortable in blue jeans as she does in an evening gown,’’ he explains. He prefers a wholesome took. “| like a natural appearance, with subtle makeup thai is worn to enhance her looks, not applied with a spatula."” He notices women dressed in white or fiorals, “something that accentuates her tan.” Taylor appreciates feminine styles, and though he likes a ca- reer image, he would prefer a dress to a suit at the office. He also mentions that how a woman wears an outfit is as important as what she wears, meaning that the correct posture and good groom- ing are essential. * Ross freland, artist/furniture designer: Ireland is a North Van- couver resident who designs for an international clientete with very individualistic tastes. His creative bent is expressed in his clothing preferences for women. He is attracted to strong, bright colors in shapely, tailored clothing that has ‘ta good fit, rather than a tight fit.’ He likes garments that flatter the figure, including shirts with shoulder padding, shorter skirts rather than pants, and jeans and T-shirts. He enjoys an eclectic look that may include an item from a sec- See Some page 1S