22 - North Shore News — Wednesday, April 12, 2000

Parents mav smother instead of shelter

es that only they can under-
stand in the context of their
Own perceptions,

Tnavariably, they are on
their own io choose their
path and we can only hope
they will choose one that will
bring them jov.

The best we can da is to
probe their percepnions, give
credence to their teclings,
and maintain the relationship
Necessary to try and help
them see a fight at the end of
cach dark tunnel they face.

— Graham Hookev is the
author of Parenting Is A Team
Sport. <ghoakev@vahas.conrs

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we may smother their ability
to stand on their own two
fect and cope with the stress

We can so positively influence
our children, so shelter them
trom the risks of the world,
that nothing bad can ever

From page 20 comfort and not hide away 1
shame. [ spent a couple of
sleepless nights doing my

own grieving, both tor the

family of the girl and for the
loss of my own parental inno-
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Sometimes we believe that

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sheer shawls on page 48 and
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