Page 20, November 8, 1978 - North Shore News

. Question: .
. People have been hanging
on: to my coat-tails far too |
long and.now I want to live.
‘my own life. My. kids are.
‘“mearly grown but I con- |
tinually have to fuss over -
them and arrange things for.
them and be their den-—
mother. My husband is just

as bad. It seems like my

“serving” these’ three males.

2 I know it’s up to..me. to.
- change: my attitude and the
a situation, but. whenever I on
make a stab at it I come
down with a case of guilt,

Even if I have something to.
do that I feel is very im-

: : - usually. wins out and I fall
: back into “doing my duty”. .

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_individual,. family or. group
‘counselling. =
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“eonventence of - North Shore .

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QUESTION: a, .
- You have too. ‘much_ ad-
vantage! You give an answer
and case closed. No way for

us to come back at you or

even ask for an elaboration.

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portant’ for me, -

hearing the voice of that Har |
who says, “A ‘Mother’ 's Place -
°Ysu. im the » Home”. |
> dimaginary tormentor of mine ©

Ko sent to me all the time?
fopen -

-T- keep

Once in a while I stand up
for. myself and do. my own
thing, but then I feel: as

guilty as if I. had had an
affair! Will I ever get out of |

my ‘cage?: ‘Why is this guilt

STEWART:
Guilt doesn’t get “sent” to

hear your. response.
instance, I think your. ideas.

about love are pure hokum.
Why not get “a group §

together and have a real gab-

fest when anything goes?

Would you be game?
STEWART: |

_ Sounds great! You get the - ;
people and the cheese and |

crackers and I'll turn up.
We'll share our ideas. Your
place or mine?»

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You may have been thinking

_ that it was a loving thing to

whole life is geared to do. But, in fact, it. wasn't

very nice of you. .

Why not dedicate: yourself

now to teaching them how to"
be more self-reliant?: You. -
“will be doing them a. great

big fat favour and if you do it

_. sensibly. and. lovingly, for. .
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to help them see what you |
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vend, By the. way, I think you
HAVE been living your own

life, but now you see an area

‘you © will.

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some. changing and
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‘Tm a fifteen-year-old guy
‘and last month I got myself

an ‘afro’. I like it all right and .

I ¢ guess the kids do too, but
my dad and a. few other
adults keep saying weird
things to me about it. Sort of
critical, but sort of teasing

too. It bugs me but I want to

do? ee

STEWART: :
‘Be glad your dad has not

said,
etc.” He’s probably just

trying to let you know that .
he’s not too wild about your.

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keep the afro. What should i |

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“No. son of mine... .-

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