C8 - Sunday News, January 10, 1982

QUESTION: I am awfully
curious about an attitude I
have that is becoming, or
already ts, quite obsessive. I
simply can't stand people
who give the impression that
they are right and no one
who & different in their

ty

dislike them. It is far more
than that. They make me
sick. They frighten me. They
allow so little hope. 1 am
worrled about my attitude
seeming to be strengthening
rather than improving. I
don't like the way I am, but

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believe me, that’s the way I
am. What goes on in me?
and what can I do about it?

STEWART: Perhaps you
have intuitively sensed, as I
have, that people who
choose to live in the ways

you have described, are
perhaps the most dangerous
of human beings. You have
said it in a very telling way in
writing, “they allow so little
hope”. However, you may
keep in mind that people
who talk and act as though
they have the final word,
don’t. No one, in fact,
“allows” the rest of us to
have hope. Hope is ours. It is
not assigned to us.

Too many of us altogether
are affected by the closed
cocksure mind of others. We
must keep in mind that

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things like, “It was Tuesday.

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but that he has a great need
to appear “right” and sure.
Such a man is dangerous
only because we choose to
be intimidated by him. If you
can see his fears, you'll be
able to love him and give
him his time for growing
toward his REAL self-

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