; QUESTION; 1 don't. know. will you help me. promote an idea ‘I've had? It has to do: ‘with ‘an habitual ‘greeting that we human beings ‘have | got. into: the habit: of ‘using . interminably. I would like to do my ‘part in n steering us. f for individual, family or grou 261-6242” away with this personal bit of or appointments for indivi ‘amily or group counselling. His promotion by asking if:you'll office in thé International Plaza Hotel (Open. 0 Tuesdays only) is for the . convenience of North Shore-residents. - help | in. ‘communicating the - STEWART: This question= has not been written in to the column, but often it has been posed . sessions and in discussion — groups and even in informal ‘social gabfests. Sometimes it is. worded like this: “What: are some good guidelines for. the enrichment. of : Mife?” Usually I reply that each person needs to find his own guidelines and I strongly believe that to be true. However, I have -drawn together some that have been useful to me and I am happy to share them: with the readers of this column. . -, They ‘are’ éntitled THE CH OICE PRINCIPLES — CHOOSE to be a aware of your unison with ‘the. Life Force and humbly respect it. — CHOOSE to trust the evolving that is now going on in you and in every person and thing. — CHOOSE to love your- self, the universe and everyone in it, without conditions. -— CHOOSE to be content with life as it is, here and now, observing and ex- periencing it without judgement. — CHOOSE to be “Grade. 12. typing: skills ard Operator) ' condition of employment. : i ion HG; Telephone 98 whether: I'll get away’ “with: this or not. My question is, - . are. you?” \ Sometimes the response is, in my counselling ~ - enrichment.. . Shine by. radiating the values... Capilano Callege is looking Typists and Switchboard’: . _ terested in temporary. amaarhents ona - required basis. 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It's been a long fp time.” I'd like almost — anything .said- by way of greeting other than that phrase that . invites negativities. I hope I get . pain or worry that he doesn't ‘talk about... - He says he is fine, but — saying it raises negative feelings in him. The’ other. . thing that’so often happens - . when: we ask, “How: are “yeu?” Is. ‘that the: ‘person we to: TELL us! He maniy ‘even start by: saying, “I am m fine,” but. then goes on to.. - it seems tog snerate negative replies most of the time. We bring about the egativities “4 000° s&T, ;000's of Quality Antiques” ; by asking each other, “How March 21 st & 22nd Sat. 11a.m.-9 p.m. . Sun: Atam-- -S p.m. _ “At The: RIVERINN. | 3500 Cessna Dr., Richmond, B. C. Admission $1 50 “Fine, . thank you,” ‘but the person’ who answers that way is so often. reminded of some ache, or a STEWART: You" got ‘away: - . . with it. But, I" think~-your — “promotion”. idea. willnot be. _ as-rewarding-as just: ‘DOING. a it yourself. -_ responsible for the wise and : loving acceptance and use of - your prosperity. _ CHOOSE to be trustingly ; receptive ‘to . new enlightenment whenever and - ra however it is revealed to.. you. ; — CHOOSE to “allow nae "yourself abundant ex--)™.: pectancy (although no specific expectations) — “concerning your on-going — CHOOSE to listen, in silence,:.to. the - wisdom “of your. higher Self: and respect it trustingly:. vas — ~. CHOOSE to let your: light Our seven beautiful stores are bursting with colourful fabrics for all your Spring sewing. Shop with us and save on the lowest prices in town! Prices effective through March 23 you “-receive. through: Practising these’ principles. REMEMBER: CHOICE Is THE LIFE PROCESS. IN ANY NEW MOMENT OF AWARENESS, YOU ARE FREE TO MAKE A NEW CHOICE.” THE NEWEST MOMENT: OF. AWARENESS IS NOW. (That sentence gratefully borrowed trom “The Love. 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