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could have possibly dreamed”
of this if it hadn’t been for
- the encouragement and ‘ad-
vice from friends and family

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your: fat friend. [If still your.
_ friend after that callous reply.

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, she ‘COULD lose the’ weight ae : itals. ete. QLlions . aretooimportant | to you... ‘do: we ;
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Mot -ifshe ‘wastes. energy oo
~ getting - others to. give” ‘ter 2 ei
THEIR strength. ‘She has her.

own. I hope she gives is heta 1en. will en

your church activities. do 1 not -
lead you into negatives ‘and
: prohibitions: and**‘rules’”. for *

living ‘‘our way”’, and if they
have® not loaded“ you with
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and:Sanctimgnious superior- oe

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advantage examine what if isin. yout that -
“takes. you” Teave «men. so™
Soften, or. makes them ‘leave .
- you. so often.” You’re ‘worried -
- about. the. “startings”’,. but
«on the other hand, you. ‘would
“aot be interested i in; or need,
“new: “‘startings’’
_ Jess apt'to have endings. See:

‘+. df-there_is“some.-pattern in”

“men, or: too: “jealous, OF too
‘bossy,

serious, or ‘superficial, or

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‘your. break-ups. Perhaps you.
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