_ QUESTION: Two young men
live next door to us and I am
- getting so mad at them. that
Pm afraid PU do Or. say.
something . ‘that is mot: very.

AM |

| Freelance ‘Counsellor Heyden :

.. individual, ° ‘family Or. ‘group:

_ counselling.. a.

His new. oftice In. the ‘Plaza
- . International’ Hotel: [open
- Tuesdays only] is. for “the |

convenience | of ‘North: “Shore: ~~ SCASOR

. residents. =
ATTA

Tell
he

“QUESTION: Pm 15 and 1
‘have a really neat boyfriend.
We've been making the
seene together for nearly
four months and I don’t know |
‘any other guy I like better. Te
. everything is so good, do you |
think I'd blow it f I told him»
something I don’t like about ©
" him? I'd botter tell you what
ft is first. Hell. phone me
and say, “Hey be ready at
6:30, we're going to the swim
meet with Ed and Karin.”
Just like that! He doesn’t say
do you want to go? or how
about if we go? He just tells

‘me. It’s fun when we go, but.

I feel sort of damb. about

being TOLD and then: just .

agreeing. « Know what I
mean? Do you think it’s
important enough to. tell him
1 don’t like it?

STEWART: I think so. If it .
‘ just goes on and on like that, ._

he will think that’s the best

way for you two. You don’t i
think so. Better give a whit! .
to improving that item. Sec if

you can figure out how to do’. |
it without sounding like a.
nag. Try to do it. without ©
making him feel he’s being.
put: ‘down. How about telling :
him’ you've — never - learned

i - "PLAZA

how to take orders and it’s
sort of hard for you. —

Tell him it’s more fun for
you to talk things over with
vour puy and arrive at a
.. sn. Tell him it’s great

: "what's: wre 2 Il. one
‘meighbourly. They are:really ng’ We , one of
"geod people to having living - something. at about 1 a.m.

Rext to ‘us except for one He comes out to his. : car’.

_ thing. ‘They. are quiet and
-? hat: apparently . has. a faul
somo -@ roar, then goes. back in to
the house for 3 or 4 minutes
> longer’ im celd: weather
leaving it to rear iteelf into.
some special kind of readi-
“ness to roll. ‘Our .two houses
are en esnerete - slabs and -
fairly» close: ‘together. and go
 there.-is_a vibration . at

- a : vss i gate this .
‘aor ois without botng
. grouchy neighbour

. STEWART: Pechaps_ noth.

friendly and. courteous. They .

ever. have change HIS pattern. You are:

_ still free; however, to change .
YOUR: “patiern.. If the young -
finan were revving his engine’.
and. making . other :kinds of :
: objectionable.’ ‘rackets; you:
“might. be able to ‘talk with .
him; but he seems to be quite’

ya wild noisy =

them must: go. ‘to. work. or-

[which is ‘a litile ‘sports. car.

muffler] and starts it up with You: ‘might enquire about the:

gross muffler he (and. you) =
“are stuck with, but even that -
~ “ doesn’ 't Seem too attractive to.
me. How : ‘change. ‘your own’:
“pattern? Well, first. of all
ACCEPT. your. reality. A part.»
of your: reality. is that: you.
havea nice fellow next door |
“who. goes to. work at a. bad --
~“hour.and has aloud car. Each. °

(and feel) the noise, which —
‘will last 3 or 4 minutes: You |

not so, but that’s the way it -
Is. - Accept ‘those facts and...

much. light -< on. how. you. can

ty . -within his rights doesn’t he. —
: » paragraph that has _impres-

give yourself permission to
. find the. opportunity. ‘that is

night you will: probably hear —

' don’t like it and ‘wish it.were |

~ see how: you can n USE them to. ; |

"your advantage. a

That a

«the: plants; . ‘or. memorize
another. Tine. or wo. of. that

“séd you;:.or do. ‘some very.
. Special., praying; or, simply
pad around the house and

- loosen up for the rest of your

night’ s sleep. ‘In SOME way

_hidden away-in that bother-
‘some but. punctual auto-

mobile that.so far has made -
“itself a. ‘problem “for you.

Allow yourself to cash in on
that 3 or 4 minute period of

‘time~: which - otherwise _ will.

- continue ‘to: bug you. ‘Shift.
gears! a :

may. be a: “good. time .
“for you to learn how to relax
under ‘trying circumstances =
~ (something nearly all of .us +.
need to do better) or. to water’

ing. Tr -mean_ F ‘don’ t have |

- QUESTION: My h heart bleeds _
*. for the poor N.H.L. players
os vrwhe have; ‘made it to the |

age Stanley - Cup finals. These -
Stewart may he. reached “gh

251-2488: csr. appointments. for *

peer guys work so hard all. thinking shout it?” our crazy way of putting
- year and then only get about values on: talent. Human
3 months to rest up before | STEWART: Pu ‘admit it the: _ funniest

ve ideas t too

Luck!

- that: you. a are an: -exchockey

- player who didn’t make it to
the NHL. Apart. from that,

LP H sey 7 too ain pert curbed by

does. not ‘@ set the awfal
‘strain of only - ‘having 3 |
months vacation time. Its
‘ike glavery. What | ois , yee

“beings are.
‘they’ start all over again. _ flickered through my mind ° people! ae
Getting a couple of hundred =

‘thousand for the regular
and . then. : all... the:

bonuses» for. ‘the Play-offs

7.

a - aoe WAYNE. _ L 2
a ‘MORRISON PILKINGTON PILKINGTON :

that he has such good ‘ideas ie _

* from your design?’
_and that you're really sold on. your de gn‘

the twosome thing you've got . _ * Bookcases aoe * —

going, but that you’d like to @ es

try out some of your ideas too a * me Tables | % Bars

‘(and you'd better have some yg * Headboards * Patio Furniture

‘ready!). Let him know you’ve -—
GOT ideas and. a good head :

and. that you're ‘not | _tust |
another pretty face - or
something. Have good ideas oof
and lots of enthusiasm, but §
be stingy with the crabbing. |

ge Stereo component stands

WHY replace your old {tired furniture, when you

can have it professionally restored. Complete repairing,
staining and refinishing.

mn ESTERN
(LW Jeep :

Seen |

- a N. Ven.

A one-way rental for 24. tr.
_ from International Plaza to the
Vancouver Airport is cheaper

| than a TAXI!
“Car Rentals

J & low as

Unlimited
1 oo miles |
| "INTERNATIONAL & 3-3. or Plus

gas
Plus gas & mileage |
Which evor is less, upon return. |

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