Q. I’m in the Navy and I can get home only six to seven days a month. li i Re F d i gz akiss ft jets i I got so mad! And he was mad back, and said he did it to let ker know how be Gidu’t cave about ber ny more. Should I believe that? A. How much do you want to? If you really want 20, you can do it. _ it. is-possibis that he. did have some: leavetaking to go throngh 48 - Wednesday, July 12, 1939 - North Shore News LIFESTYLES with that woman — not to leave her behind without the courtesy of a farewell, not to be such a coward as never to tell her to her face what happened Now, he may be mistaken about what is permitted to engaged or “stole his .”? Perhaps you are right. Tell him he is forgiven for telling ker goodbye that once, but no more visits because she can’t give Q. Fos the past six years my wife a a a well. “It’s kind of nice to get up in the morning and have nothing to Joe's memory is ‘amazing --do but worry about how you're going to spend the day. I miss the people out here, but I really don’s miss the work.” ; “Hello, how are you? Then he’d start to, in a roundabout way, fig- ure out what the connection was. It would take three minutes and he would have the people’s ‘names without having to ask them — which is amazing.’” Today, people still flock to Troll’s to see Joe, even though he officially retired five years ago. Sailor needs to know if the passion can survive aad i have noi had any sex at all. I have ‘tried talking to her but she kecps changing the subject. She will not see a doctor, saying these is nothing wrorg with her. About 15 years ago she had a full hysterectomy and some time later she stopped taking fer hor- mones. I have tried everything to make her happy. I take ber cut for din- per asd dancing every week. I am with her every night and weekends. If only she knew how much ] necd scx. ¥ don’t know how long I can keep on this way without cheating on her. A. Whenever there is a couple and one partner wants more sex than the other, there is need for a professional consultant, not neces- sarily a sex therapist but someone to help sort out the disagreements that make it impossible for one partner to oblige, talk to or hear the oiher. Maybe your wife has some long-buried resentment. In attempting to talk to your wife about this without the profes- sional present, the discussion is all . too likely to be sidetracked. The marital consultant can keep the discussion unsnaried and going. In that third person’s mind is always the question, ‘““Why can’t this couple talk and show affastion to each other? What is gumming it all up for them?” This does not work magic with every couple, and it will not save every couple, or put the sunshine back into every relationship. But it does work quite often. CIM standards are stringent, courses are comprehensive and class H mormally meet on Saturdays at SFU Downtown in a formal classroorn ——— Paint Salel Cloverdale’s Best Qual ity Paints Are On Sale till Juiy 16. Premium Latex Paints . .. Premi : Alkyd Paints... $2509 Premi House Paint eae $2699 BUY NOW AND SAVE! Quality garden sized Bedding Plants and Hanging Baskets and Moss Baskets. BODY? MIND? SPIRIT? Who are you? Find out — call the GARDEN SHOP the _Dianetics hotline . 1-800-FOR-TRUTH in the parking lot at (367-8788) 17th & Lonsdale DIPLOMA OF MARKETING (GCinsth) The Canadian Chartared institute of Marketing (CIM) in Ottawa has accredited this intense, professional and practical marketing program. It lasts 10 months and parallels the York University course. Successful completion will satisfy the education requirements for professional mernbership in CIM, and will allow qualified graduates to use the credentiais GCins!M. sizes are limited. Motivated and disciplined candidates are able to earn while they learn from a faculty of seasoned MBAs. Classes getting, but special individual provisions may be made for those with unpredictable work schsdules. Classes start Septernber 9, 1989. Call or write for information: (604) 685-4355. Weekdays 9-5. “ | The Chartered Mezketer Program * Starting January 1690» in intemsationst Basiness Of Aivectisine o INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS INSTITUTE 1431 Howe Street, Vescowver VGZ IRD $2298 Premiura Chuverdale Pais — Your BasiChoice. | Wood Stains on Saie @ “Premium” Acrylic or Linseed Oil wood stains : in solid hide or semi-transparent finishes. 99 ae ceded e tence nese ete e eee eeen eres : a &- EXTERIOR PAINTS | Latex House Paint INTERIOR EXTERIOR PAINTS | ARE ON SALE NOW AT _ Cloverdaie Paint SALE DATES JUNE 23 - JULY 16, 1989 . : ~ y a 7 WS Cloverdale Paint | 1629 Lonsdale Avenue Monday - Thursday #280 am-5:20 pm Fri: 7:30 am-9:00 pm; Sat.: 9:00 ant-5:30 pm; + Sundays & Holidays: 10:00 am-5:00 pm @ LOWCOST © MULTIFLE LOCATIONS Si = 975 8-] Cemnps begin CALL 738- 51186. re Across from Supervalu 985-6815