Should we travel
or stay at home?

big events have come

about in my life. I
have chosen early retirement,
at the age of 59. I have mar-
ried again after seven years of
being on my own, and my
new wife and I have purchas-
ed a lovely new home and
have moved into it. My wife
is 5l-years-old and she too
had a period of about four
years of living on her own
after her first husband died.
She has not yet quit working
and does not want to do so
for two years, or perhaps just
one year.

My wife has a married
daughter who lives in the
Maritimes. I have two boys,
31 and 28, both of whom are
married, one living in the

UESTION: Inthe
Q past few months three

States and the other = in
Quebec.
“Our financial cir-

cumstances are very good.
We can do what we want to
do and there is no real need
for my wife to keep on work-
ing. I tell you all this about
my wife and our respective
offspring and our finances in
order for you to understand
that we really are quite free to
follow almost any style of life
we choose.

I hesitate to ask my ques-
tion because even my wife
and I, as recently as last
night, were laughing together
about what a ridiculous ques-
tion it is. If it seems funny to
us, | suppose you will con-
sider it hilarious. Anyway,

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here it is. Both of us want so
much to experience some real
Stability together and to settle
down in. our new home and
“*stay put’’. But, at the same
time, each of us wants to
travel extensively! (You can

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see why we are laughing
about our dilemma) Would
you like to suggest what you
think is the better thing for
us? Or, would you care to
suggest ways in which we can
communicate effectively
enough for us to arrive at an
appropriate solution?

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STEWART: I suppose it is
laughable for you to be figur-
ing out how to travel and
“‘stay put’’. | have a sneaky
hunch you are really working
on a different dilemma and
hoping to get a clue out of
working on this fake one. But
let’s consider it as you’ve
stated it. Why not respect
your wife’s urge to work
another year or two and use
that time for settling in and
staying put? During that
time, plan your travelling
carefully. Study up on the
countries you'll be visiting.
Do a lot of travel-long in
your imagination, using as
aids, pictures, books, tapes
etc. Have a great time getting
ready. Then, when your wife
wants to retire, you'll be all
ready to celebrate by indulg-
ing in some REAL travelling.
It sounds so easy. ~
QUESTION: 1 don’t think
you've ever written anything
about the raging abortion
issue. Why not? Are you pro-
life or pro-choice?
STEWART: Yes.

In a great majority of
pregnancies, my bias would
be to avoid abortion

And in every solitary in-
stance of pregnancy that calls
for a choice my bias would be
to respect the woman's right
to make the choice, whether
it would be my choice or not.
And, whatever her choice, |
would hope she would have
adequate help in working her
way through it with benefit to
all concerned.

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