48 - Sunday, May 20, 1990 - North Shore News LIFESTYLES Examiners shouldn't expect food from student much { — and the other graduate ought to turn any disgruntled feel- DEAR MISS MANNERS — I am a graduate student in a department that requires its students to complete a series of oral examinations, each conducted by a panel of faculty members. There has been an unwritten tradition that the examinee should bring refreshments, but one of the members of my examining ccom- mittee has expressed to me his preference that I not bring refreshments to my upcoming oral. I agree that oral exams should miss Manners Judith Martin be professional and businesslike, and that students should not try to create a cozy atmosphere in an at- tempt to overcome feelings of be- ing intimidated. Our department needs to pay special attention (o such issues, since we have a targe majority of female students and a large majority of male faculty members. However, 1 am also concerned about offending (or at least disap- pointing) other members of the examining committee. Are there rules of etiquette gov- erning such circumstances, which J could circulate? I am more worried about this issue than the actual content of the examination. GENTLE READER — Here is a brand-new ruling from Miss Man- hers: The custom of having the student bring the refreshments is hereby declared invalid. Any such sustaining supplies should be the responsibility of the department. However, you don’t really want to hand this declaration out at your orals. The custom of criti- cizing your examining committee has never been a useful one. What you want tc do instead is to compliment the professor who told you not to follow the tradi- tion. Something along the lines of “Although I would have been happy to bring the usual refresh- ments. | want to tell you how Money being raised for trip From page 47 the communities,’’ says Robertson. While the Toronto doctors will be airlifted into the Guyanese villages, Robertson and the other Youth Challenge International staff will be forced to paddle down rivers to get to their destinations. She said she is looking forward to having a chance to help the Guyanese people. Anyone wishing to help Robert- son's cause can send a donation to Turning on this Light Saves energy & money! Youth Challenge International, 11 Soho Street, Toronto, Ont., MST 1Z6, or call Robertson at 922- 0750. students — appreciate your sensi- tivity in suspending the custom” Denture ings away trom you and onto the colleague. Services * Free consultations e New dentures e Relines in one day * Repairs within 3 hours « Soft liners availabie e Dental plans accepted All services performed by fully qualified North Shore denturists and licensed by the Province of British Columbia A a A. Adolfsen 4500-145 W17th NVancouver Ph 987-4747 M. Nenadic #205-1420 Marine Dr. NVoncouver Ph. 986-5668 2 Barker 231 Lonsdale NVancouver Ph 986-8515 LE. Lewis #30)-1124 Lonsdale NvVancouver Ph, 987-1944 V. Thorburn #208-133] Marine Dr. WVoncouver Ph 922-3309 This new outdoor light by ICI comes complete with long-life flourescent bulb which lasts six times longer than standard bulbs. Ideal for doorways, porches, patios and pool houses. Available in jar light and globe light. Ten year warranty included. $49.00 @ aces CABINET SE LT or over a decade Reynolds has created classic kitchens for thousands Fe satisfied customers. Consider the depth of professionalism you get by doing business with Reynolds Cabinet Shop. * Quality professional design staff * High industry standards for your cabinet installation % Manufacturer of our own cabinets * Dealer of other local manufacturers * Our own Construction Division with competent trades people « A Network of established local businesses to assist us in all phases of the renovation industry. % *& Above all we offer affordable quality x For a free in-home estimate Please call 985-9527 1300 Lloyd Ave., North Vancouver 38% A Westburne Company 845 Terminal Ave, Vancouver Call: 685-0220