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person and to the
surroundings. Trust your
feelings.

“Don't pin all your hopes
on that first appointment,”
he warns.

“It would be asking too
much to expect a smashing
success at the first meeting.
However, if you feel
comfortable with the salon

Stress a factor

and with the people, don't
make any judgment until
your second or third visit. It
can sometimes take that long
to produce the results you
want.”

Don't be fnghtened about
trying new styles. Hair styles
change every six months —
so be ready for a fresh ap-
proach. And don't revolve,
your life around one par-
ticular hairdresser — no
matter how good he or she

is. Other stylists in the same
salon may be able to offer
you the same kind of ex-
pertise.

Nor, he adds, should you
hesitate to complain when
something goes
during your visit.

“Stylists and salon owners
chink they're pleasing you
unless you say something to
the contrary.

“If you're angry about
some aspect of the service,

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in sexual child abuse

TORONTO (UPC) Both
success and failure in family
life can cause problems that

lead to sexual abuse of
children, ai conference of
marriage and family

therapists was told last weck
Art Brown, a chanical
psychiatnst presenting a
paper on scxual abuse to the
Amencan Association
Marriage and Family
Therapy) conference
said = disruptive

for

here,
shafts in
family status or income

whether up or down
cause

could

sammenng = tension

which might caplode years

later as incest and scaual

abuse

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The Sah Lake City, Utah,
psychiatrist said abuse could
also be prompted by other
strains such as an tliness of a
family member or addition
of another child

Brown said garis about /1
years old were the most

{frequent victuums and the
offender was usually the
father, stepfather 9 or
mother’s liven boyfnend

Occasionally, an adolescent
boy was the vicum and the
offender cther the mother
or father “but Chis ts rare ~

Jhe psychiatnst said he
was against sexual contact
between parents and off
spring “There are some

Milady’s

professionals

who Say

“What's wrong with this?”

but Ive never seen a case

Where there hasnt been
problems ~

Some fathers inad

vertently cross the boundary
from affecuon to sexual
abuse, he said. winle other
demed there were probiems
with thear conduct or blame
the incident on the child
Problems

were com
pounded he said) by the
mother who often ignored
incest oF blamed the

daughter saying sbe invited
abuse by

the

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see” will be the topic of
world-renowned = scientist,
Dr. Frank Oppenheimer.
when he speaks to the Arts

and Sciences Centre
Society's first Annual
General Meeting on

Thursday, November 20 at
7:30 pm. Dr. Oppenheimer
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