& — Wednesday, July 15, 1992 — North Shore News Finding the miraculous in everyday life I HAVE always liked the souad of the word ‘*miracle.’’ It is a word that both soothes and tickles. As I may have mentioned in this space before, I happen to believe in miracles. This probably puts me ina minority position. But then, for all | know, maybe nearly everybody secretly believes in miracles, or at least the possi- bility of miracles. Just because people avoid going to church doesn’t mean they lack faith in miracles. Just because they reject orga- nized belief-systems doesn’t mean they are unable to experience what you might call a cosmic buzz every once in a while. An instant where your hair stands up on end because you sense something amazing has just transpired before your wondering eyes. ft depends, of course, on how one defines a miracle. [t can be done on the basis of a sliding scale, with a river of volcanic lava stopping just a few feet in front of a statue of the Virgin Mary be- ing, say, a “10,”’ and your ‘neighbor's power lawnmower conking out just as you step onto your patio to sit down and have a drink being a ‘‘1,’’ and the lawnmower staying conked out for the rest of the day being a ‘‘2”’ or maybe even a ‘*3.”” ‘You follow? Like, another ex- ample: I’m driving, and the freeway ahead looks totally jam- med as far as the eye can see. | can’t get over to the exit lane be- fore the next turn-off. And if I miss that, !’ll for sure miss my oh-so-important engagement. It’s 2 cloudy day. The car blocking my way on the right suddenly seizes up and grinds toa complete halt. A beam of light spurts down from between the clouds, landing on the empty patch of pavement that opens beside me. 1 switch lanes instantly, finding another tiny gap opening between a tractor-trailer and a station- wagon, just where the beam of light is panning, and zap, I’m on- to the ramp and out of the jam. The beam of light from above winks out. Nobody saw anything unusual, but me. Bob Hunter STRICTLY PERSONAL Miracle — or absolutely nothing even worth mentioning? Pure - coincidence, of course, and not even much of a coincidence, at that, you say firmly. Yet it’s enough to give mea lit- tle wee cosmic buzz. Not that ! think for a second there’s such a thing as a personal God who wat- ches over each and every one of . us, with nothing to do but stand by as a kind of super babysitter cum Terminator. Of course if there is a ‘‘higher self”? or *‘soul"’ or ‘‘oversoul’’ functioning at some supernormal level beyond mere human con- sciousness, one would never know what was going on — stuck, as one inevitably is, on the ‘‘nor- mat”’ plane of existence. The best you could hope for would be to see a pattern, an outline. You'd have to be alert for hints, signs, glimpses, clues. For me, beams of sunlight at peculiar moments will do. The point is, it’s no big deal. Maybe it was a tiny, fleeting, glancing, passing, coming-and- going quasi-miracle. Maybe not. Made me feel good for a moment. Better I should feel good than bad. Could be I'm too easily pleased. But ultimately, so what? It’s a kind of a tree-fall- ing-in-th. forest dilemma. If a miracle occurs and nobody notices, it’s just a random event, right? 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But I don’t think the idea of a miracle should automatically be assumed to be a ‘religious thing.’ There are all sorts of phenomena — extrasensory perception, metanormal behavior — which can be described as miraculous, but also can be described as sim- ply ‘‘inexplicable’’ or ‘‘amazing.”’ The ‘‘miracles’’ I think I see might just be ordinary astonishing stuff. Maybe the fabric of life itself is so thoroughly suffused with miraculous material, let us say, that you could argue there is nothing that isn’t miraculous. Now, I admit, to suggest that random occurrences of good luck or weirdness might be part of some miracle-making process — a kind of wavering of the event- horizon in one’s favor — is prob- ably to cross the line between deep and wishful thinking, and shame on me for pretending to know anything for sure. It's just that, what if our expec- tations of what would constitute a real miracle are too outrageously high? We want burning bushes or chaps hiking about on the water, resurrection, blood from stones. ’ f ua KICK. 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