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Ltee, The COQuUItaM Centre wa 7418 cikies “ It is fall and the beginning of a new school year. Across the country versions of this scene are taking place. “Mom, we have so much homework. and Miss Ward just piles it on because she hates us, and she never looks al it. anyway, and I'll never getit done. Resentment and frustration with homework is virtually inevitable. Par- tually, 1 1s an age-specific problem, for as children grow older, the world grows more enticing and home- work becomes an increasing burden. Partially it 1s a school- related problem as teachers are not always fully aware of how long or carefully a student has labored Mainly. however. it is a home-related concern Children are greatly affected by their parents’ attitudes and actions regarding homework How have parents con- tnbuted to these problems? ITS THAT TIME again when the kids will all be returning to school across North America and motorists are being reminded to watch for the youngsters. Help with homework On the one hand. parents can be too demanding. too helpful, too concerned. Or, they can believe in a totally hands-off policy in order to foster complete in- dependence. Just as there is no cure for the common cold but only various methods of alleviating the symptoms so. too. there are no prescnptions for handling homework. There are only strategies and guidelines. Parents are particularly susceptible to the following templavions The error jeaps forth at you. After all) the insertion of an “h” in “wich” is a minor point. It is so tempting to change that glaring error. Certainly your child knows perfectly well that 7 plus 8 equals 15. but he carelessly forgot to carry the “one.” The young child who be- comes accustomed to a parent hovering over his shoulder hke an avenging “education for si Back to School the whole child” Open House September | 7:00 p.m. North Vancouver. - 9:00 p.m. The WALDORF SCHOOL 2725 Sc. Chrtstopher's Road, 985 J. -_= ~angel will develop a fear of making mistakes that will hamper his or her creativity and ability to attempt new tasks. There 1s a world of dif- ference between a_ child learning thal it is important to do his best and that he has to do perfect work. If you cannot resist this temptation, succumb constructively by teaching your child the invaiuable skill of checking over his work. Tell your child that some- where in a certain line there is a Spelling error. Make it a challenge to locate it. Help him or her use the dic- tionary In the arithmetic homework. point out that there is an error somewhere in the first five problems Can he or she find it? Children may resist’ this tactic because they = are interested only ino “the answer” Remain firm and calm Your evenings are ono longer your own Your son needs you to sit as a silent spectator while he opens his book with all the deliberate speed of a tortoise Your daughter wants you to help find answers that are either self evident or cequire eatensive knowledge that she Rrows verte cher tha Possess Your ohald) may need te feel that you are arouse Syustincase Tf not abused parental presemec Ns a valuable confidence boostes Grencrally however over demanding ohildren have recognised that they can control and regulate thes parents cryentng hours ty Tequesting assistance with their homework Phe temptation to help vour octiidd ww grea but fostering dependeney Ws hharonftal Tf yeou famed Chat vou ate a priscner of homework devise ways of breaking oul Pand excuses to slip outiof the Poom and gradually Ine tease the length of time you ate absent With children whose demands are lewitimately preater estat hasbe famed tore quant