C12-Wednesday, November 5, 1980 - North Shore News.

item who seems to
have a lot of trouble

ng what she likes and
what she wants. I like her
very much and I wish things
were different, but she bi
really so liacking in en-
thusiasm that it drives me
crazy. We'll go to the show
and I never know if she liked
it or hated it. We just went to
the show — no more, no
less. I take her. out to dinner
and I'm in the dark as to
whether she'd like to go to
that place again. She keeps
saying, “Whatever you say is
O.K. with me.” I like a lot of
people and I don't know if
she likes anyone — or even
hates anyone. Even in bed
ft’s just the same. It is a

mystery to me whether it has
been wonderful or lousy. rll

_ say to her “Where would you

like to go tonight?” or I
might say, “Let’s do so-and-
so tonight.” I know the
answer ahead of time. “It
doesn't matter to me — I
want to do what you want.” I
can fmagine some fellows
would like that being said to
them, and they'd just take
charge — quite happily. But
me? Not on your life. I want
to know what is fun for her,
what she likes, what she
wants to do or where she
wants to go. Then I want to
have even a little inkling
whether she is pleased or
not. The most enthusiasm I
ever get from her is, “If you
enjoyed it, I am happy.”
That is just not good enough

stand. eectjthian being blah:
What should I do about it?

STEWART:
should back off. You've
clearly directed me _ to
arriving at that position. You
say, “That is just not good
enough for me.” You say, “I
can’t stand everything being
blah.” You have even said,
“I wish things were dif-
ferent.” Well, they are NOT
different. That’s what they
are like. Of course you could
try to make her over, but
I've never heard of that
working. (She might do that
some day, but you will
NEVER do it.)

You've said another thing

I think you .

that is important. You said,
“I can imagine some fellows

would like” that sort of
relationship. “They'd just

take charge — quite hap-
pily.” True. So give them a
chance to find her. Give her
a chance to meet them. And,
above all, give yourself a
chance to get out of
something that you say you
“can’t stand”.

Printmakers show comes to N. Van

At Presentation House

Presentation House is
pleased to present the Mala-
spina Printmakers’: Annual
Juried Show, on display
November 6 to 30 in the
Upstairs Gallery. The
exhibition will feature a wide
variety of works in many
prin’ mediums — all
of which will be offered for
saletothe public. -

The Malaspina Priat-
makers is a non-profit
society, formed in 1975 to
promote the works and skills

or printmakers and _ to
furnish the community with
a visual showing of their
works. The society has a
workshop in downtown
Vancouver, which provides
a centre for the exchange of
ideas and techniques.

Artists from throughout

British Columbia will submit -

their work to a jury of critics
and professional print-
makers. Those prints

deemed to be of highest
will comprise the

merit

exhibition.

Etchings, relief prints,
silkscreens, blueprints and
lithographs — the . many
types of prints on display will
introduce the uninitiated to
the variety and versatility of
this exciting art form and
keep print ‘buffs abreast of
new techniques and ideas.

The public is welcome to

attend the opening of the
exhibition on Thursday,
November 6 at 8 pm.
Refreshments will be served.

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