C14-Sanday News, June 29, 1980 H - : ask hayden stewart Admiral Realty Call 984-0421 706 E. 7th St., North Vancouver Freelance Cyunsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 forappointments forindtvidual, family or proup counselling His new office in the Internauonal Plaza Hotel (Open Tuesdays only) ts for the convemence of North Shore residents Tired of his wife QUESTION: I know ft's an old joke, buat I heard it again the other day and it really struck home. The comedian says, “You take my wife,” and then, after a pause, be adds, “and boy, how I wish you would!” My wife is a very neat L. woman and I think a lot of her, bat I wish some knight in shining armor would come riding tato her life and take her away with him. I would want ber to be happy about ft, of course, but if she was happy, that would be an ideal situation for me. I'm fest tired to death of her. Yet I can’t do anything about it, because I don't want to hunt her. I dom’t want to kick her out or take off myself. But ff complex and uocgative and fearfal that 1 seem to have lost my tendency to be a positive thinker. All the leaders seem to have their own private axes to grind no matter what the grinding will mean to others. You can't get anywhere that = way. What's the hope when the people we clect are so single minded and narrowed down that they make us think they are ieadimg a3 down the Mrery were veel wot aed t ees 1 Westies taco she fell for someone and left with him - that would be great with me. My marriage is just not enjoyable any more, so I'm praying for the knight In shining armour. That would be ideal. We'd all be happy. Anything wrong with that? STEW ART: . Well, it might take quite a while. I don’t think God moves very quickly in an- swering your kind of praying. I can't quite en- vision the universal life force sending around a knight for the purpose of hurrying to your rescue m a matter thal is so obviously your own opportunity, and = respon- sibility. A shght twist in your program may work though. How about praying for God to help YOU become the knight in shining armour that you so desperately want and need, to turn your marrage into enjoyment again? That might work, if you Cooperate in it. If your armour had a lot more shine to it, your wife may come alive and be a great joy to you. But no one will do that for you, not God or the knight. Give it a whirl. You may find your wife hagn't lost ber lustre at all. She may have been slowly dying in your uninspiring presence. Whether you are with her or without her, you'll surely want to come ahve and create your own reahty, not wait around for stray koughts to rescue you e for Canada? garden path? Do you think there ts much hope for a good future for Canada? STEWART: I hate sounding lke a Pollyanna. (meaning a starry eyed, optimistic, unthinking dreamer) and so Pu have to call on you readers of this carth shaking column to give me a break and to think about my an swer to the above searching question, rather than quickly labeling me of my answer My strong fecting 1s that we are going (o have a very very difficult time coming through with adequate Solutions fo Our CMOnrmous conundrums But | also have equally strong feelings that we will come through in tie end. Out of the challepging tasks we have before us will emerge a Canada thal ts moving closer and clé@ser to being “glomous and free” Bank I beheve there are’ thousands of us) who deeply feel that way. bul are timid about admitting tt because of the enormity of the challenges we meet Your on it! must question “Do you think there is much hope for oa Canada’” certainly geod future for My do” answer | Moreover. | don't feel lonely in voring that Comvic Gaon lot of us whe feet that Join the gang! [here are a wily LOSE 5-14 LBS. 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