FROM PAGE C1 a who ow the child's > Progress. In addition the’ centre is Currently: Daycare In- -—-pal responsible for - ad- niinistering f e special needs — ~program-.+/ setting -up—a resource -or daycare situation for -a child’ with special needs, such as a deaf child. “We * see ourselves working as a team: the natural mother, the daycare formation has a registry of ‘approximately 120 daycare ‘homes: and has“ 10 to 12 children needing placement.. Although they | place years old,. the age group - most in need of homes right - now are toddlers — from 13, to 20 months.It is very ‘frustrating to tell parents’ ~The ‘centre recommends — ~that daycare mothers take in ‘no’ more than one or two children to. begin- with, and Most daycare - insists’ that they commit themselves for at least one , year, for the sake of. the child. children from | birth to 12. Ideally, the it_-she isa > mother, arid our office,” says that they just “don't have Ms. Foley, “working anything | “available, “says together in the best interests Sybil. _— of the child. Prospective daycare mothers are first screened by REFERRAL PROCESS phone. If ‘the prospective ycare mother has just had ofore the centre makes 2 a baby, for instance, the ieee. “One of the Centre suggests that she wait : we ily st ig 2 While before taking ir rent..choice. The-paren te_ Someone's else's child. utually interview each ; ‘ scton . + ORIENTATION other, and make the decision "MEETINGS. themseives. “If the two parents work _ well. together, that’s the real shared parenting concept, and they can probably solve anything that comes up.” But if the parents don't have similar attitudes about most of the main issues of mothering, or can’t make mutually‘ comfortable compromises, the centre encourages both the parent. - and the daycare mother to say no.. “One of the biggest concerns we ‘have is to keep the child bounced ‘around from home to home to home. If that happens, the kid is a mess. ° -“But if the child is in a safe, happy, consistent en nent, with mom or without mom, groups have shown that the kids balance out — they have the same strengths and weaknesses.” After the child is placed, the daycare worker who has interviewed - ‘parent and referred the daycare mother to --the natural parent, is the one’ from being: the natural, woman who: “wants to be at home and who likes being at home. PLACEMENT > In the placement ‘of a toddler, the daycare mother -should not have. a child of her own younger than three. . If the two's are terrible, daycare | mother looks after the child “in her own home; she may or _ may not have children of her own; but. most of all, it is. - -couver.six_years-ago,_at-24, ‘and has been working for the ‘ since 1974, ‘for those who catty. for family daycare is to a maximum of $125 a month. ‘mothers _charge somewhat more than - _that, in the range of $200 per “month. Daycare. obviously, be an income in itself, as Sybil says, but it can be a supplement. iginally from Ottawa, Syt Oley came to Van- ‘Daycare Information Centre This fall she is going to UBC for a degree in social’ work. children. of her own, saying she's far too young to make a | ‘decision. on marriage and children. ~ “I have learned so much can't, : She has 20 a { - | | ae Cae “ ~ ada oo . Sg e Puss C3, August fale 1979 - North Shore News BIL FOLEY. Every two weeks the centre conducts orientation meetings, basically in- formation-sharing mectings, | for prospective daycare mothers, stressing the professional | mothering aspect of daycare as well as. the business side of it. “In the first meeting we talk about relationships and the kinds of people who are looking for daycare. In the second meeting we get into more practical matters, such as discipline. Corporal punishment of any kind, such as spanking, is for-_ bidden.” The third meeting is a home assessment. 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