FINALLY! WEVE GOT SOME RESTRICTIONS ON “TN. VIGLENGE. NEWS VIEWPOINT eal relations | THOUGHT-provoking speech by psychologist Dr. Gordon Neufeld at -. a recent meeting sponsored ‘by the : Capilano Community Services ‘Society sparked sonie thinking about core issues ‘that’ all adults musi honestly consider if we ‘are. to understand just how we have lost -Many.of our children to-violence and inal- : adjustment. i . Nature .abhors a. vacuum. Too many .. parents have relinquished their job’ as posi- “tive and active adult role. models for their o children. They’ ve dropped the ball and: look: to others. — the daycare workers, the ” teachers, the police, the courts — to pick it up. Kids ‘naturally. turn 16 their seers and tend to elevate the most frustrated amongst them ‘as leaders... i For some, children have simply become ips items on the wish-list of things to attain as we keep score of success. Children are maintained physically, but the moral boundaries are left undefined. Worse still, lax parents are conditioning them to become passive consumers. Dead- ening video fills the void. Neufeld calls the detachment, this lack of contact and closeness, emotionafly and psychologically with mom and dad, thwarted proximity. Frustration is at the core of the seem- ingly senseless violence we are seeing more of in our communities. Society is breaking down at its most fundamental level — the family. We must work at having reai relation- ships with our children if we are to turn things around. “TeTvER OF THE DAY Be war y of the quick-fix solutions , ‘Dear Editor: * In choosing school trustees, we need: to be wary of quick-fix ‘ solutions for complicated prob- lems. It’s easy to say what’s wrong with the Year 2000 initiative. The better candidates will also identify its positive features. It’s easy to discuss. the 3 Rs. . The better candidates will also be” -aware of the teamworsx and self- | discipline that are developed in performing arts:and aihletics pro- grams. . Publisher . . Managing Editor Associate Editor Sales & fAarketing Director Comptrolier ....Peter Speck . .Timothy Renshaw Noel Wright Linda Stewart Doug Foot - te 8 easy to complain about the teacizers’ union. The better can- didates will accept the reality of collective bargaining and present specific ideas on how the rela- tionship can be improved. It’s easy to identify programs that need more funding. The bet- ter .candidates will also suggest where the funding will come from. It’s easy to spend two evenings a week attending meetings. The better candidates will also build a personal relationship with the schools. ' Display Advertising 980-0511 Real Estate Advertising 985-6382 Classified Advertising 986-6222 Newsroom 985-2131 Fax. Distribution Suoscriptions 986-1337 oe This newspaper Administration 985-2131 B In sum, we need school trust- -ees- who are well-informed about a broad range of education issues. Candidates who have lots of easy answers and pet peeves will not provide effective leadership. Take the time to find out who deserves your vote. Use your vote to send a message that you care about the quality of education in your district. That’s a message Victoria needs to hear. Len Henriksson North Vancouver 986-1337 985-3227 contains feat tecycled libre ic iy r for easy the Sy Bh. Ss Bt wy voter. IF i had s a dollar for every time I’ve been asked the same question about our local elections in the past three weeks, Dorothy and i would be off to Victoria for a bonus weekend at the Empress. The repeated question: “Whom should ] vote for? There are so many names and most of them I’ve never heard of.”’ Small wonder. In total the three North Shore municipalities have a record 53 ‘‘outsiders’’ vying for just nine council and school board vacancies, with incumbents seek- ing re-election to the remaining 23 mayoral, council and school board slots. While the ‘‘outsiders’’ in all three cases include a sprinkling of familiar names — eg., former school board chairman Don Beil in North Van District, former ed- itor Ralph Hall in North Van City and Bill Soprovich of Chamber of Commerce and Coho Festival renown in West Van — four out of five of them are largely unknown to the voters. And unlike federal and provin- cial candidates, they have no po- litical parties to bring them votes, regardless of name or fame. A ward system, as noted in this space on Sunday, would make their task — and that of the voters — much easier. Any given ward ballot would have considerably fewer names. For the same amount of money, candidate publicity could be much more concentrated. In many cases candidates would be neighborhood residents, known personally to ward voters. Since their mandate would be to protect and promote ward inter- ests, their platforms would be more specific. And this closer. candidate-voter interaction would inevitabiy be reflected in a much healthier turnout on election day. In the past,:wards have often had a bad press in North America, thanks to the characters who ma- _ nipulated them. But today, infi- nitely more sophisticated voters and far tighter election laws pro- vide more than adequate safe- guards against abuses. And ultimately, a ward system may be the ONLY way to ensure greater voter involvement. Until then, dear questioners, I'm afraid the only answer to your confusion lies in personal effort that many North Shore voters seem to have shirked in the past — like reading carefully all can- didate brochures, attending all- candidate meetings (including this week’s on Shaw Cable TV) and poring over the detailed North Shore News coverage of issues and HITHER AND YON individual candidates in the fast two weeks.. if you can catch up with it all. by Saturday; you should feel no" qualms about dropping by the polling station. You'll get a nice wan feeling from making in- formed decisions and doing your civic duty, Equally.important, you’li help’ boost those miserable 20% to 30% turnout figures of former.years —- into something more worthy.of an ©. educated and concerned : démocracy. SCRATCHPAD: Congrats to re- cent Argyle grad Nina Reiniger — now at SFU — on being awarded a four-year Canada Scholarship in.’ Science and Engineering wortha . | -cool $10,000. ..: On display until ' -Nov. 28 at West Van Library are? monoprints of landscapes, still life and flowers by local artist Peggy Tupper. ... Why procrastinate? * Deborah Shannon explains | reasons, consequences and how.to get back on track at 10:30 a.m. to - noon Saturday, Nov. 20, atthe . Silk Purse, 1570 Argyle, West Van. — call 926-3266 to pre-register. ... And many happy returns of tomorrow, Nov. 18, to Mount Seymour Lion Les Mynott. 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Alt rights reserved. ew shinto Tony Peters NAMES, NAMES everywhere - ‘four out of five unknown to most . voters - as candidates struggle for recognition. —