HERE ARE SOME “bits and pieces’’ that have caught my interest for one reason or another. Enjoy! You are you and I am I. We are alone together. And if the. I that is I is not in harmony with the you that is you then the we that is us. will become - the them that was — or were. In any case, may you some day be as profound as I. —The statements that com- municate most clearly are about ME, YOU, NOW, HERE — while, ‘all fi nal... authorities are present. . (Hugh Prather: ‘in Notes: to” Myself * . - When you love — all s sorts ‘of rainbows are likely to sprout out of common mud- puddles. (Alexander King) A relationship has no rights. Only the people i in-it do. . ~ Selfishness is NOT living as one wishes to live; it is asking others to live as one wishes to — the growing edge by Hayden Stewart Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 Sor appointments for individual, Jamily or group counselling. _ dive... unselfishness is: letting other “people’s lives alone, not interfering with, them. Selfishness * always ‘aims at creating around it.an ab- solute uniformity of type. Unselfishness recognizes in- finite variety of types as a delightful thing, accepts it, acquiesces in it and enjoys it. (Unidentified) - God’s ‘gift was that man should conceive of truth And yearn to gain it, catching at mistake As midway help till he reach fact indeed. (Browning) Once.in a saintly passion ! cried with desperate grief, “O Lord,:my heart is black — with guile; Of sinners I am chief.”’ Then: stooped my guardian... angel - And whispered from behind, ‘‘Vanity, my little man, You’re nothing of the kind.”’ (James Thomson) What a gift you give me! When you receive me as beautiful | Clinic aims to reduce stress ‘LAST Resort self help pro- gram of stress management ’ by stress analyst Murray _Goldsmith will take place Wednesday evening February ’4 at ‘Highland School in a special workshop for parents to understand the stress level in their home and lower it for more effective communica- tion with other family members. The workshop will run from 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. According to program coordinator Peggy Pardo, parents too often try to com- GRADE TWO class .from the Waldorf school stage a’ play called Pif Paf Poltrie - for some residents.at "\: Evergreen House recently. municate with their children from a stress level that is too high for the children to relate to, causing frustration and lack of communication. Goldsmith has worked in hypnotherapy, written books, and worked extensive- ly with stress on an individual basis and in workshops such as the one coming up in North Vancouver. To register for the program call Highlands Community School at 985-3514. For more information call Peggy Pardo at 926-9358. Classified 986-6222 Exactly where I am Cli - Sunday, January 22, 1984 -_North Shore News — ~ Love helps me to You give me myself. Strengthen bonds and What a gift this is. Loosen holds. Full of wonder. HINEUNI. (Translation: (Marianne Gardiner) HERE I AM) _ se . . 4, y . Listen to Good News for a change When you try to communicate with your kids, and your stress level is too high, it's like to communicate on different levels of a Communication ts at it’s best when you are“at ease”. Murray Goldsmith is an expert. He will teach you how to recognize, reduce and prevent stress in you and your children. Workshops beginning in North Vancouver this Wednesday, February 1st 1984. For registration call Monday & Tuesday 9-4. Highland Community Schoo: 985-3514 ; or ; further information and pr availability in other areas cal: Peggy Pardo Co-ordinator “The Last Resort” 926-9358 Love Our Perm Plus... ‘Maple Clearance Less 30%-40%-50% DISCONTINUED ITEMS & FLOOR SAMPLES Dining Tables — Occasional Tables — Beds — Dressers — Mitrora_— Nite Tables — Book Cases — Chairs — Buffets — Hutches 7 Cen and Emberglo hishes) Space Needed for The NEW 1984 Vilas Line 1375 Kingsway, Van. 20505 Fraser Hwy., Langley 876-2201 534-3251 February is the month for a perm you'd love to have. Revitalize, refresh, redesign your hairstyle. And do it with “Great Feeling’’. Our perm that’s at a saving throughout February. Regularly it’s $60, now it’s only $35, including cut and styling. The Plus? As an added bonus receive a $7 value Directives deep conditioner at no charge. For an appointment call Eaton's Park Royal Beauty Salon. ..922-3325. Regularly $60. $35 EATON'S PARK ROYAL