Stop speaking for God QUESTION: Your straight forward no- nonsense advice _ is something much needed these days. Your column shows your experience as a counsellor and in life in general. In your column “The Celestial Gong Show”, you tell the counsellee, “li you feel OK about yourself, proceed with your life fulffiiment in your own way” Is that ic? Hf 1 understand this advice, all one has to do Is make up his own moral code, follow it and he will be blessed... My real concern fs with you printing your perception of God and his characteristics... No doubt your perception of God is something you've worked . out over the years. But equally important to the Love of God is_ the Judgement of God... The old and new testaments are full of both. No one should accuse you of sidestepping issues in order to tell your readers what they want to hear. But, when you give advice to your clients that they don't like, do you say, “That's OK, just ignore what I say and make ap your own advice and follow it and everything will turn out cool”? Mr. Stewart, the “Wrath of God” jazz is not a popular concept, but should we reject it simply because of it unpopularity?... on the off chance that there is a heaven, hell and “eternal damnation”, we shouldn't deny it, as the consequences are more important when someone's hurt feelings... please do what you do best: relate to interactions bet- ween people. Do not theologize. Do not make value judgements on religious matters in print. | respect you for having an opinion, but I can’t speak for the Lord, and neither can you. STEWART: I agree that you and | 2 sittings 43001 5pm and 7 pmon 4 uVE 3381 Capilano Rd. (near Suspension Bridge) cannot speak “for the Lord”. Perhaps most people will agree with us, at least in that matter. Isn't it a shame that sO many people at least appear to believe that someone (other than you and I) can speak for the Lord, and that's a shame. They act as though their denomination, or their church, or their pastor, or their favourite scripture (often twisted passage around to suit their position) can “speak for the Lord”. You say the “wrath of God” idea is not a popular concept and ask if we should reject it for that reason. I don't think so. There are dozens of better reasons for rejecting it. I'll mention only one: Jesus, himself had nothing to say about it. We've agreed that we cannot “speak for the Lord”, but when he speaks for himself, | ask hayden stewart Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. Disarmament depends on us QUESTION: I’ve just read your column of April 14 and would like to thank you for your excellent answers to those two letters about disarmament. It's so easy to individuals to feel powerless in the face of the present nuclear threat. That's why I ap- preciated your positive suggestions for action. I feel that peace and disarmament depend on concerned in- dividuals such as those who wrote you. There are so many things that can be done just on the individual level. I hope you have in- spired some of your readers to do whatever they see to do. STEWART: A staggering number of millions of people in all the lands on this planet are opposed to the use of nuclear weapons. Their potential power is awesome. SPECIAL BRUNCH LUNCH from 10 30 am-2 30 pm on G But, as you say, those millions need to let each other know how they feel and they need to DO what. they can and BE people of good will and _ positive, creative action. There is a better way than systematically burning each other to a crisp. Outnumbered QUESTION: About nuclear war. We're helpless. Our government (and other governments) doesn't think like we common people think. STEWART: If we let them know that about 98% of their con- stituents are utterly and thoughtfully opposed to nuclear weaponry, they'll gradually start to have better ideas. ? A DINNER in our lovely new DINING LOUNGE or gorgeous ALPINE ROOM Beautifully prepared and graciously served Give Mother a memorable day! DINING LOUNGE Delicious choices from our special Gourmet Menu Cany SUNDAY MAY 9 ALPINE ROOM A special Deluxe Smorgasbord ardens 988-6101 Phone Reserve Celebrate. . Make happy Be with us! C1S - Wednesday, May 5, 1982 - North Shore News 2 week special Save 20% Superior Blinds he has very little if anything to say about a God of wrath. I like that. Thank you (I think) for checking on my theologizing and making value judgements. I’ve begn thinking I was pretty good at avoiding them! Your letter will keep me humble and for that reason my value judgement of your letter gives you a good grade. SS == = louvred venetian “La petite”’ West Van Furniture 1395 Marine Dr.. 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