2 - Sunday, May 22, 1988 -

DEAR MISS MANNERS —
Should a man kiss another woman
on the mouth. and cull her ‘'sweet-
beart’’ in front of his wife? I is
not good to kiss anyone you da
not know oo the mouth, That's the
way diseuses: puss from one to
another,

- GENTLE READER — This is ‘not

a health column. If it were, Miss .

Manners (who would presumably
be Miss Robust) would caution the
: gentleman . that. calling .:strange
ladies’ ‘‘sweetheart,”’

not only kiss-»
_ ing them, can. be a health hazard,

“conventional
_ are otherwise

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even if his wife is not present.

The etiquette aspect of this’is
that some American subcultures.
chiefly in the entertainment
business, do use such manners as
preetings, but they
assochaied with

romance,

miss
manners
Judith Martin’

DEAR. MISS MANNERS — f

wear ‘tinted contact Senses, which
make my eyes seem more blue.
Often people who don't know me

- wil) come right out and ask, ‘Are
“you weering contact lenses or. are
- your eyes renlly that color?**

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Kissing strange women a health hazard?

Unless Ive had afew drinks and

im feeling playful, 2 usually
answer them truthfully, but In do-
ing so oT often wonder if I'm
defeating my own vanity through
the admission, Are they being rude
to ask such a question?
GENTLE READER — Of courte
itis rude fo inquire about the ge
fuineness of another person's apy
peurance. Can you imagine what
this ca $1a?

DEAR MISS MANNERS — My.

mother is my hest friend, and |
want her fo be my “matron of
honor, Can she, and if sa, does
that mean my father (they are still

happily married) wil} have to sit by,

himself. while my mother is at the
‘altar with me? Where would my
parents sit at the reception, if:-my

mother is in the wedding party?
My mother was overjoyed that |

wanted her to be matron of honor, |

but she doesn't want to be. sepa-
rated from my father’ during the
ceremony. or reception. She knows
my feelings won't be hurt if she
’ decides to just be the mother of the
bride, but we are both curious as

to whether this has ever been done

before. a

GE NTL ERE ADE R -- Like most
brides, you are the victim of the
odd idea that the people mist fit
the roies, rather-than the roles fit-
ting the people.

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course your mother may be matron
of honor, as fathers often serve as
best man to bridegroems. If your

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