48 - Sunday, December 24, 1989 - North Shore News Take plenty of pictures at anniversary From page 46 grandchildren be included in for- mal family pictures? Should they be treated equally with the “‘blood"’ grandchildren in receiv- ing corsages, seatings al table, and so forth? This should be a joyous occasion, and I'd like everyone to be happy with the arrangements. GENTLE READER — You have all the ingredients for a joyous occasion — warmth, gen- ecrosity, and the attitude that how people got into the family counts a great deai less than the fact that they are there. Miss Manners knows such a happy family cannot be achieved without a great deal of tact and tolerance, in addition to the central ingredient of tove. Your children and grandchildren are therefore probably already sensitive to the nuances of offering fove without seeming to demand recognition. By no means should their enthusiasm for this event be restrained by the fact that there are relatives with longer and closer claims. This is not a competition. wt # ad . < . Shake Bence SR ee: POR eg i k is ody knows Boxing Wee Events the best times to buy. But the headaches! All that “Noise” out there. it's often as if you re losing your mind. So don’ nt. Shop the other side of the street. the specialists... ae SONY stor For real peace-o- mine. Spirited Boxing Week price No pressure, “Streetsmart aavIce. And the best names an products in the business. So, shop ‘the SONY store « The best decision you make during Boxing Week. re Sony. 925-2622 orth, Mat e Open Decem Expect We Park Royal N URS: 9:30 a.m. te HASSE Efy € CREDH Wot OURS STORE HO Hb ween) / 7188 errs 7 But you should make sure that it is not made to seem like one, with petty distinctions accorded to some and net others. Why can’t lots of pictures be taken — some with your branch of the family, some with others, some with everyoue? If you can’t strew a few flowers around to everyone, just give some to your mother-in-law. compact DIGITAL AUDIO