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want to initiate change, but
lots of people will join some-
one who does.

Miss Manners believes
your point to be worth mak-
ing, but would like to modify
the way you present it.

Yes, it is ‘‘life’’ that not.

everyone gets invited
everywhere, and also that
everyone in a class will find
out what parties take place
no matter how the invitations
are issued. The concerned

Parent explains the
vicissitudes of social life,
reminds the child of them
when that child is acting as
host, and offers comfort
when it is needed.

However, that is no reason
for permitting two lessons in
bad manners to be conducted
in the classroom.

It is bad manners to issue
social invitations in any for-
mal group that has been
brought together for another
purpose. Children who are
allowed to pass out birthday

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invitations during class time
will grow up to put their wed-
ding invitations on company
billboards. If a child wants to
seek out his prospective
guests during Junch hour or
recess, or to put the invita-
tions in their buddy holes or
lockers, that would be
acceptable.

ft is incredibly bad man-
ners to issue any social invita-
tion at all in front of people
who are not being invited.
Therefore, the host should
not only not hand them out
in the group, but if he does so
on the playground, he should

be instructed to pass them
out discreetly, and not when
any of the uninvited are
present.

Miss Manners has ong
defended teachers ‘rom
parents’ demands that they
teach the children good man-
ners. That is a parental job,
and well-meaning teachers
who try to make. up for
parents’ omissions are adding
to their already heavy loads a
burden they will not.be able
to carry. But she will not
countenance bad .manners’
being taught in the

classroom.

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