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‘counselling. |

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‘Leave Anita
- Bryant alone

. QUESTION: I'm gotting aw-
fully. tired of people. making:

critical remarks about Anita.
Bryant’s, splendid campaign

to ‘put the homosexuals in

their proper place.Why can’t |
people see the importance of.
what she is doing and get —

_. behind her Instead of being
‘go’ critical and making her
' efforts a subject for attempts
at humour? How long will it

take people to. wake up and

| Love only one? Impossible!

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leave hor alone or ‘give her
support? .

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long, long time. During
which time I hope that those
of us who are critical of her
attitudes, and methods will
’ not let ourselves get into the
same pattern she has chosen
for herself by labelling. her
and judging her and setting

ourselves’ up as her official

and ‘pious excommunicators.

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has a right to do so. I hate
her way and have a tight to
do so.

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coming to visit us. Before she. -

even gots here she, is telling

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written’ us that she “nearly

‘froze in bed when she was
‘hore «last ‘time’? .
hopes we'll please ‘give her.
ttiore covers this time! What °

a nerve! Who does she think

bedding to'give her? How do
you handle that sort of

-bossiness?
STEWART: Who does she |

you con love more than one
person at. a time?

STEWART: Not only do I
but I also
believe . it is very very
difficult to love only one
person at atime. If you
““love’’ only one person, the
love you have for that person
is surely something less than
love. Obviously, I am speak-
ing of love that is something
far more profoundly reward-

ent the fact: that-you ‘are no.

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patterns and see which ones’. -
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. tween you and me, DO you -

me??? If: dressing. ‘the way .

even. rejection, you. may want:
to’ consider ‘
“your stance... Is. your, way a
working well for you? . “

mother who gets cold in bed" @
atid: has enough | sense and.

she. |
handle it? Give ‘her more.

- given her what she’s asked
sho fs telling us what kind of —

has NOT asked for but wants

-She aint bossy - she’s cold! .

can: ‘break | ‘more.

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feel like . and want to blame. somebody:

for rejecting | you? Tf. “‘soc-.:

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uncomfortable criticism ‘and ©

re-evaluating °,

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But l can tell you a little bit .
about her. She is . your’

trust in you,to feel free to ask -
for more: covers. How. to: |
covers, let her know you’ve’ @

for, Then give her what she

Fe RI Se a

‘so desperately - your love! It
will keep all of you warm.’

ing than meretriendship, or }
mere sexual relating, —

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as those are. Real love
cannot be constricted and
boxed in an concentrated.
exclusively.. It is universal.

Some readers will cheer for

that answer. Some will jeer.
Some will argue. Some will |
even fight. And some, I

hope, will be lured into a new
exploration of a greater love.

Love one person only?

Impossible!

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