‘my. fiest phy 2 there and a year w lve tn Vancouver | ‘do’ I males the STEWAitT: is: @ rotten feeling being away from all " aafriendly, : back, ", Tdida't know’ ‘all 3 your old pals, or anyone else and papa caries ale that's__why.the...weekend . seemed like three weeks. It . _ was terrible. [have a feeling _ that your current dilémma is not really because you are in . _ Vancouver. It's because you are not in. Red: Deer. ‘Perhaps, if you were willing | . to start living: here, instead of living in the past, you would | find yourself more You are love-_ leads to your second question: “Wouldn't I be better off accepting it?” You would be better off ac- : NYTHING EVERYTHING about youn self, because doing that opens up a wide door into CHANGE! Not accepting yourself as you are tics you down to pretence and mask-wearing and and playing games with your truc identity in such a way _ that no one can know the you (including you) and | us cannot Jove the real you. But even worse, not accepting yourself as you arc, makes change very nearly impossible. Get a copy of that crazy little book called, “T ain't much baby, but 'm all I've got” and give it a go as a starter. Mean- and, to. receive: friendship. Give yourself a break. Enjoy where. you are. Don’t tell ~ anyone in Red Deer, but you ‘know, I like it here better ~ than I liked it in Red Deer. Perhaps you will too if you decide to give us some of the friendship you feel we need. All contributions gratefully received! and don’t forget it" times a day for three or four . days. “I am LOVE. I AM ove, I am love.” Say it and sxy it and say it. Your sub- conscious will be listening! while, say this about ten Proportionately, there” | . may be more friendly people _ _.in-Red Deer than there are here, ‘but this is where you , are now living and it is here © - that you need to be friendly . | Feature meal Ham steak and. pineapple with dessert 76 Try our other Hawaiian feasts, too! Mahi- Mahi * Chicken Polynesian * Hawaiian Stew Friday 4 to 8 p.m. at all Bay buffets Fudsons Bay Company, yor eee