e careful with unpasteurized juice THE provincial health officers warns resi- dents that unpasteur- ized juice or cider needs to be boiled to avoid possible illness. Dr. Perry Kendal! warned recently that everyone should boil unpasteurized juice before drinking it to be on the safe side. He said it would be best if young chil- dren, the elderly, and people with weakened immune sys- tems did not drink unpas- teurized juice‘or cider at ali. The warning comes in a press release issued on Oct. Boiling the beverages invclves eating until they _reach a full, rolling boil, then taking them off the heat and allowing them to cool before refrigerating. Unpasteurized fruit juices and ciders can become cont- aminated with harmful bac- teria. They have been linked to outbreaks of gastrointesti- nal illness in Canada and the _ United States. Most often, . the cause is a strain of batre- ria commonly called E. coli, Symptoms can include stom-" ach cramps, vomiting, fever, and. bloody diarrhea. In a small percentage of people, the condition can lead to . severe kidney damage or death. . Almost . ali os juices and _Ciders’ on - grocery store shelves are pasteurized. However, some juices and ciders sold) at roadside stands, country fairs, juice bars and refrigerated cases in grocery stores are unpasteur- ized. Many of these juices are produced at this time of year. According to the provin- cial health officer, Health Canada has developed a pol- icy that encourages produc- ers of unpasteurized juice and cider to follow a defined code of practice for hygienic production and distribution of unpasteurized juices and ciders and to label their products as unpasteurized. The policy also includes a consumer educational cam- paign to raise awareness about the potential risks associated with these prod- ucts. But none of the recom- mendations and guidelines can guarantee a pathogen- free product. Kendall said if’ it is uncer- tain whether a juice has been pasteurized, boil it to make sure it won’t make you sick. Anyone becoming ill with gastrointestinal symptoms like diarrhea and vomiting after drinking unpasteurized juice should report it imme- diately to their local public health unit, listed under health authorities in the Blue Pages of the phone book. People with severe or persis- tent symptoms should also consult their doctor. HEALTH Looking for a better husband The following has been pravid- ed by the B.C. Psychological Association, a non-profit mssa- ciation with 500 registered psv- chologists. The association pro- vides a referral service at 730- 0522: Dear ask your psychologist: I'm not sure what to do. I've been married four years and have a beautiful nvo-year oid daughter with my hus- band. My marriage hasn’t turned out to be what I thought it would. I know my husband wasn’t much of a caretaker when we got mar- tied, but 1 thought that once we had kids he'd develop a natural fatherly instinct. He is an OK dad, but he’s not what I'd hoped he'd be. I want a fantastic father for my daugh- ter. I'm actually thinking of divorcing and looking for a more caring father for my lit- tle girl. Would I be making a mistake? From a very loving mom. Dear Loving Mom, Please take a second thought before you take the drastic step of looking for a new father for your child. Here’s why: @ you were unreasonable to expect that your husband would somehow change after having children; @ children need safety, love, appropriate limits, etc., to grow up healthy and happy, but do not require perfectly perfect fathers and mothers. @ divorcing and replacing your husband is very likely to ‘STORE HOURS be endlessly more upsetting to your daughter than her cur- rent OK dad situation. I urge you te look at the state of your marriage and to work very hard on strengthen- ing it. A discussion about par- enting styles, practice and expectations also needs cto occur. You owe it to yourself, your husband, and your augher to think about your conunitments te your mar- riage and about being parents. You may make a better par- enting team than you think. Please give it a try. —answer provided by Dr. Carla Fry The Selfish Parent? How do you know when satisfying your own needs and parting you child’s needs on old will better serve their needs ultimately? Answer: The key word is “when.” Part of the “when” is about the age of the child. Childhood is made for learn- ing and play; play is the child’s special way of trying out new ways of being. ‘It's wrong to make a child work aff the time just because we need help, and deny them the studying and playing time they need. T met an eight-year old the other day who had to sweep’ the floors every day instead of playing with her friends. Her mother is very busy, but that’s unfair to the child. Chores should be assigned for the purpose of teaching children jow to do things and how to take responsibility, not to MON TO FRI SAM TO SPM SAT & SUN ‘SAM TO.7PM.. Peeremerr cence Se EROLE ee thadiigpes slau sah euguledoveiear pons maar Seon an Oe cea nek’ Sunday, October 29, 2000 — North Shore News - 23 relieve an adult’s overload. But at the same time, we need to teach children to rake responsibility and respect the needs of others. So we gradu- ally make them aware of our own needs as they grow older. Litde children aren’t able to delay their needs for very long. They need us to be there for them most of the time, so they can know they are loved and taken care of. But as they grow older, we have to set limits on their behaviour and make our needs known to them. When your new baby cries at night, you get up, perhaps take her into vour bedroom, and feed her without hesita- tion. When she’s two years old and just wants to play, it’s a different story, and you let her know you want her back in her own bed as soon as possi- ble so you can sleep. When your four-year-old interrupts all your telephone calls, you’re entitled to tell her firmly to wait until you've fin- ished, but then finish within her attention span, which is about five minutes, not an hour. An older child should be expected to wait longer, but not all evening. It’s a matter of balancing your child’s needs, your own needs, and your child’s devel- opmental stage, and making moment-by-moment — deci- sions about whose needs should come first. If you both live and teach the Golden Rule, you can’t go too far wrong. —answer provided by Dr. Alison Miller PERSONAL Fitness Training as Everyone has the potential to improve their health & fimess, be full of energy, look and feel great. 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