Cll - Wedmesday, August 4, 1982 - North Shore News

Eliminating sexual ‘problems’

QUESTION: kiddy-porn, sexual violence, anything at all to do with all tainly a great batch of them. food - with respect and joy. cruelly inept. A lot of people
I am in no way obsessed rape, video these “social issues” that You are right of course. But If they are unable to put have vever found what you
with sex, but perhaps noone tapes, movies etc. It makes it demand our attention these so is the fellow who saystoa their hands on some food, say you have. There may be
respects it and enjoys ft amy rather difficult tofocusinom days. The “issues” would mot = group of starving people, all the advice has been something more you can do.
more than I do. It is much the besutifully tender, be alive at all if we learmmed you need to do is eat good technically correct, but It’s a thought.
more than a physical ex- comceraed and more about respect for sex
for me, im fact, I enjoyment of everything that and for people, and, more

consider it to be a spiritual

mee as well as a
physical and emotional one.
All of which qualifies me to

for resenting so much of the
current emphasis on scx-
related controversies.

I, like everyone else these
days, am being hustled to
take sides and “get involved”
in regard to abortions,

QUESTION: Friends of ours
have a daughter 12 years old
and a son 13%. For some
reason I can't understand,
the son has not been living
with them since he was just 1
or 2. Now he has come to
live with them on a per-
manent basis, but the two
kids don’t know they are
brother and sister. I chink ft
is a terrible thing for the
parents not to let the kids

you have the feeling that you
may be almost the only
couple that fecls that way.
We kmow that sex need not

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Keep your hands off

know. The girl thinks the
boy is “something like a
foster-child”. What if they
fall in love with cach other in
two or three years? There
could be an awful lot of
develop, and a
lot of harm doze. What
should I do?
STEWART: Your concern is
understandable and I share it
with you. But I feel strongly
that you should do nothing.

I guess I have not atked a
question have L. Well, here ft
is. Don't you think we could
rid ourselves of all these
sexual “problems”, if only*
we would experience sex
with respect and joy?

STEWART:
Well, perhaps not “all” of
our “problems”, but cer-

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